My boyfriend joined myspace.com what should I do I think that is not a good thing.?

Question

I am not jealous he posted my child pictures on that website as well with his what am I SUPPOSE TO THINK SHOULD I BE HAPPY D**** WHAT HE DOES I DONT WANT MY CHILD PICTURE POSTED . YOU ARE RIGHT HE MAKES HIS OWN DECISIONS BUT STILL I THINK THE ONLY THING YOU GO ON THERE FOR IS TO TALK TO OTHER YOUNG WOMAN HE IS 28 TALKING TO 15 YEAR OLDS. COME ON THAT IS NOT BEING JEALOUS AT ALL!

He knows I have a yahoo site.

Answer 1

I don't care what anyone else says. I think that this MAY be a bad idea. MySpace is either used for keeping in touch with friends both old and new, or to look for a male or female. A lot of people are really flirty over the Internet and they either don't notice it or don't care. If he's just talking with friends then that's fine, but if you notice anything suspicious or females on comments or his friends list that you don't know of, ask questions. Everyone tends to be jealous to a certain extent and so, what if you are. You may want to even create your own MySpace. Try and trust your boyfriend, but if he gives you any reason not to and you have suspicions let him know. MySpace CAN cause relationship problems. Trust me, I know first hand.

Answer 2

I guess the are two sides to this:
1)if you are unhappy with something your boyfriend is doing that is harmful to your relationship (ie hitting on other girls online) then you should talk to him and clearly explain your concerns. Hitting on people in cyberspace is not that much different than flirting with strangers in a bar and If he respects you than he'll accept to give up.

2)If your boyfriend is meeting friends or looking for a job etc., then this shouldn't been an issue, you have to trust him. If he told you that he joined then he has been upfront with you. (But I hope you weren't snooping?!?)

Otherwise, if you don't want your childrens pictures online just tell him that you are not happy with that, and to please take them off.

Answer 3

Depends on why you think it's not a good thing. If you are worried that he will meet other girls, well in reality, if he wants to meet other girls, he's going to do it wiether or not he has myspace. But at least with myspace you can keep an eye on his page.

Answer 4

you know I am 41 and just started being on yahoo and myspace. ask him why he need to be on myspace. does he not go on yahoo like you. maybe he just wants to be different. Or he is looking for friends and things if you can't show him your yahoo site and he can't show you his myspace site then your both hiding something.

Answer 5

Why is it not a good thing? Are you trying to control everything he does, and everyone he talks to? He is not going to cheat on you simply by talking to people online. Smarten up before he dumps your jealous butt.

Answer 6

Well, I guess I would talk to him and tell him how you feel, but when it comes right down to it, it's not your decision to make. He's old enough to make his own decisions about which websites he chooses to visit.

If you trust him, don't worry about it. =)

Answer 7

Well if you are the untrusting, jeaslous, crazy girlfriend as you sound you could ask him for his password. then if he don't give it to you then you can proceed to slash his tires, beat up any girl that looks at him, or stalk him where ever he goes.

Answer 8

Are you on there flirting?? If your man's on there, then you shouldn't have to worry about anything, especially if you're being good. i have friends on there that leave flirty comments, and my fiance just laughs and smiles.

You'll have to be open and honest with him.

Answer 9

i dont think thats a bad thing, hes just connecting with his friends! check up on his space every so often maybe, but i dont think its really a big deal if he loves you, you have nothing to worry about :)

Answer 10

Join myspace yourself.