Go to a sporting goods store.
But one of everything.
Then you'll have plenty of balls.
And you'll still be too much of a puss to talk to chicks.
Just remember, suicide is always an option. So is prostitution.
2006-06-07 07:39:06
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answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5
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Many of the guys who will answer this come in one of three categories:
First, ones who has been there an know what you're talking about and,
Second, ones who have been there but want to put you down so that they feel more like the man that they are afraid that they are not and,
Third, ones who are so self-confident that they are obnoxious.
That said, there is no simple answer to your queston, my friend.
There is a statment that I have found most valuable is like situations:
"Courage is not the absence of fear; courage is action in the face of fear"
"Getting balls" as you term it is not something you can get at the store or by wishing and hoping or by getting the right answer to your question. It is only available to those who will walk through the fear. Ask yourself, "what is the very worst that can happen". Embarassment is rarely fatal. As a matter of fact we learn most of with we know in life, including talking to women, by out mistakes.
Buck up and give it a try! Know this, my friend, that you might not be the best, you might not be the most clever but you will be the best you can be at that given moment and the more of those moments you havew the better that you will get!
It isn't easy; but little of true value is ever easy!
Jim
2006-06-07 15:00:16
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answered by RunningUte 3
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The first responder is an idiot. Just approach a woman you would like to have a relationship with and start making idle chat. Ask her out and if she says yes then good for you. Don't act too soon or too late. The first step is always talking.
2006-06-07 14:40:48
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answered by the wise one 2
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First of all look at her hand to see if she is wearing a wedding or engagement ring so you don't embarrass yourself before approaching. And then try to get eye contact with her. If you get eye contact and a smile that is your go-ahead to approach. Walk up to her and introduce your self and ask her her name. Depending on the location where you are at ask questions having to do with the location. Just be yourself, it always works out that way. Be honest. No lies....they will hurt you in the long run, unless your out for one thing. Good luck!
2006-06-07 14:47:51
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answered by Anonymous
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its pretty easy
there are millions of women on this planet, why do you care if ONE of them rejects you?
dating is a numbers game my man, and the sooner you realize this, the more confident you will become, and confidence WORKS better than anything else when pursuing a woman
i would just start out with "hi im (insert name)" and then start talking to her about your surrounding, i.e. the weather, the furniture in the bar, the aesthetic of the restaurant, or if you are in the grocery ask her about some product you are thinking of getting
2006-06-07 14:43:10
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answered by whoisgod71 3
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confidence is key. But look at the whole picture, that works for me. Think about how short our lives are, and how much time we waiste beating around the bush. Would you rather be happy now, or wait a few years and wonder the whole time. Just ask her, find out what she likes, what her goals are, what she accomplished with her day.
2006-06-07 14:40:30
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answered by Darby L 3
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first a smile and then a compliment shud be good!
later you can ask the details like r u a student, do u like working here bla blah blah...asking the name first is not a very good trick, i think!
hope you find a goodone for urself! goodluck!! :)
2006-06-07 14:44:16
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answered by cherish 1
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Just say hello. Then follow that up with how are you today. If you know her talk to her. If not ask questions that will accomplish that.
2006-06-07 14:47:56
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answered by King H 6
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Make eye contact if in person. If on the net, this is a good way.
2006-06-07 14:40:59
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answered by Kari 1
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You can get them from the gumball machine for 25 cents!
2006-06-07 14:40:10
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answered by hatingmsn 6
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