i just got my car back and iam 17 years old. He thinks iam cheating. We have a child together. I don't what to do. He is very jealous.
2006-06-07 07:30:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to talk to him. Remain calm, don't accuse or say anything without thinking it over first. Communication and trust are the two main factors in a healthy relationship. He may be feeling a little insecure or he may be slightly guilty of something himself. Whatever it is, you have to talk it out. Not only for yourselves but for this child! Good luck!
2006-06-07 07:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to be careful because if you are not giving him a reason to be jealous and he's acting stupid anyway, then you need to see if it's time to get out of this relationship, while you're still alive and in one piece.
Jealousy can get really ugly, I've heard horror stories. People ending up dead for no damn good reason! Five years is a long time and he should know you inside and out by now, as you him. So if he has issues, you be careful. Talk to someone who could help you get out if you need to. Take care of yourself and don't stay because you have a baby and he's all you know.
Let me tell you girl, you CAN make it on your own, it's gonna take lots of hard work, but you can do it. Maybe someone from your family can help you. Jealous people should never be taken lightly. It's a serious issue.
2006-06-07 07:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do anything wrong in the past then he has no reason to think you are cheating! Just explain to him that trust is very important in a relationship and without it there is no relationship. Give it time and if he doesn't loosen up and become trusting then you may need to rethink every thing and consider breaking up. It is brutal but trust is probably the most important thing in a relationship. Good luck!
2006-06-07 07:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by songbird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing the whole story makes it hard to give a valid answer, but playing the devils advocate here. If you are not doing anything to give him good reason to suspect you are cheating then it is all on him to change his thoughts about it. Have you tried talking to him about it? or seen some sort of outside consoling?
5 yrs is a long time to still be Jealous... I suspect there is more underlining problems than just the jelousy...
2006-06-07 08:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Terry N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy... HMM ...... sounds like you did something untrustworthy
This could also be due to both of your ages. The best solution is to prove that you can be trusted by inviting him where ever you are(unless it is not prohibited for a man to be present) and when you go out for a ride take him and the baby with you, if he refuses then your retort can be "I asked you to come along ,but you refused" Try that, and be honest, trying to get someone to believe your lies is wrong and I hope that is not what you are doing.
GOOD LUCK !!
2006-06-07 07:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by brooklynbornson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 5 years and he still doesn't trust you? And you have a kid together? Then there isn't anything you can really do. You can call him while your out and tell him who your with and what your doing. You can ask him to come with you. Or you can stay home 24/7 and never go anywhere(I don't suggest that one).
2006-06-07 07:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by greatgirl66784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are doing something thats making him jealous or he is just like that because you have a child together. Talk to him and asked him why he feels that way.
2006-06-07 07:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. did u do something to not make him trust u but then it could be different.
trust is the main key to me in a relationship. if he does not trust u then how can u exspect for this to be a healthy relationship. i would say that being jealous can damage or destroy a relationship. if he cant learn to trust u then i would say get out. hope that i could help.
2006-06-07 09:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by purple_mustang_girl08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, girl. You've been together since you were TWELVE????
AND you have a baby????
You both need to do some serious growing up. If he doesn't trust you, is it because he's got good reason not to?? Or is it that HE'S cheating, and doesn't want YOU to find out. Either way..... DAMN.
2006-06-07 07:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a reason not to trust you? If not and you've been with him for 5 yrs. and he dont trust you yet then maybe its time you moved on. Or perhaps he's the one with the guilty conscience.
2006-06-07 07:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by ducksixty8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋