How do I know if he's serious?

Question

Hi,

I have a question, I met this guy online about 1 month ago and we've gone out on 4 dates so far. The first time we hang out together we ended up going to his place, but we just watched a dvd then i fell asleep in his bed and nothing happened. We cuddle, and kiss buthe never tried to push for anything more. On our second date the same thing happened, then our 3rd date came around and nothing happend till the next morning we slept together but he said no pressure but I wanted to so we did. On our 4th date we were suppose to watch a movie but it was sold out so we ended up getting something to eat then we went to his place. Around 12am he asked me if i wanted him to take me home, but he never asked that question the other times i was overthere. I told him that if he wanted I would go home but he said he didn't mind and that I can stay over whenever I wanted. When he fell asleep he put his arm around me and he did all the time . Im not sure if he really likes me or if he's serious.

all of this happened over a 1 month period. Today I have to take care of something for my car and he reminded me and I told him I would call when i get it done. Im thinking if he didn't care why would he bring up something I need to get done that has nothing to do with him.

Answer 1

Me, I think he just doesn't want to push you, crowd Or take advantage.
I think he must like you. He's just biding his time.

Answer 2

Sounds pretty darn good to me, you seem to be asking for to much. Slow down and stop making such a big deal over things, and being over analytical. Just enjoy the time you have together, if you go to him with something like this you could scare him off. In my opinion, you have a good thing, but you really need to relax, it's only been a little while!

Answer 3

I'm a guy and I know this sounds like the worst thing to most guys but if you play a little hard to get. Maybe your question will be answered rather quickly.If he's interested and he knows he needs to work for it then he will come running.But if he isn't serious then he probably won't try to get you over to his place again. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Good luck

Answer 4

I personally denounce all internet meetings. I've heard horror stories. But I will chat sometimes.
However, You two have made an initial connection....so go for it.
It hasn't been a week yet. What's the rush. Get to know each other a little more. Have fun while learning more about each other.

Answer 5

Yes. Just continue with it. It is still fresh. He is not pressuring you into anything and that might mean he is interested in you - not only physically.
Just keep hanging out together. That is the only way how to find out whether he likes you or not.
So far it seems very nice.

Answer 6

You might want to ask him if you're not sure just let him know you're a little confused, and you'd appreciate it if he cleared things up and if he gives you an answer you don't like just let him know whether or not that's something you're comfortable with. Good Luck Best Wishes ;)

Answer 7

Sounds like to me you got a good. He doesn't force himself on you and is nice enough to offer to take you home in case you are uncomfortable. Just give it time, you'll know before long how he feels about you. Good luck

Answer 8

I wouldn't sleep with him so soon, but as far as if he is serious, he might have been at first, but now he probably is trying to see if you are that easy with others as well. try to show him that it was because of how you feel about him that you slept with him so soon. good luck

Answer 9

I think that considering ya'll always go back to his house he just offered to take u home to see ur house and how u were living

Answer 10

i think he really likes u and thats y he didnt want to push u into anything u didnt want to do. on ur fourth date he could ahve thought u felt uncomfortableso thats y he asked if u wanted to go home