who feels left out when u always ignore people this happens to me alot...?

Question

i always feel left out even with frinds.even when i ignore people buggin me(i always ignore i dont even talk to them)can people help me???

Answer 1

I often feel left out with my friends, I think it's only happened lately. Or rather, I'm only beginning to feel this way. It feels quite hurtful sometimes - like you're not as important as everyone else.

What I did was to ... (don't laugh) ... start smiling, A LOT. I'm serious. Happy people like other happy people. So, even if at first your smiles might be a little weird or even fake, you get used to it. And soon, you could be smiling without even realizing it!

It's quite fun actually. You could also try to be less sensitive to what other people say - sometimes, they don't actually mean to be hurtful. Just join in their conversations and laugh along. Oh, and perhaps yo could stop ignoring other people? I know it's not fun, but just try to grit your teeth and do it.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I feel left out too I think some of it can stem from jealousy of other girls they leave you out on purpose because you might be the type that is pretty but shy and then other girls know that it is easy to ignore you and treat you that way. The best way I find to oversome this is keep on looking smashingly hot and start talking to other people around you when you go out not just your friends they will see that you are comfortable with others so if they value their friendship with you and they see that you are a likeable person they might try a little harder to keep you as a friend. zbud your way into conversations and start being aggressive mimic one of your friends that is already like that sometimes whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

Answer 3

I had the same problem when I was younger It just takes time to feel comfortable around others. Just make an effort to talk to different people. I know easier said then done. I finally got over it when I got a job that forced me to either talk to people or have silence in the exam room. i used to have people try to talk to me I would give a short answer and then pretend to do something else. If they seem to want to talk then see what they have to say and go from there.