i love my boyfriend i have told him that many a time that i love him but he said that he is still deciding. how can i change his shyness? we have been dating for one year but he is just so shy i want to be with him but i want to melt away his shyness one step @ a time how can i do this i was the shy one but i toughened up and am not i want to b able to act like a regular couple we are teens HE IS STRAIGHT!
2006-06-07 06:30:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE IS NOT A LITTLE BOY!!!!!!
2006-06-07 06:34:30 · update #1
Maybe he's a little smarter than you give him credit for. Maybe he really isn't sure if he truly loves you yet, and doesn't want to say it until he really feels that way. Or, maybe he's not ready for that kind of commitment yet. The two of you are still very young and have a whole life ahead. You can't force love, and if he feels like he's being pressured, you'll chase him away. I say you should relax and see where things go. Eventually you will know how he really feels and then you can make an educated decision as to whether or not you want to be with him, forever. I assume this is what you want, if you say you love him right?
2006-06-17 20:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been together a year and he is still shy? If he doesn't feel comfortable with you by now, then he has some problems that go well beyond shyness. You need to ask him whats up. Does he act differently around his family and then becomes shy around you? You need to find a person who can open up in a relationship and be comfortable with you. Maybe its time to move on. It just doesn't make sense.
2006-06-07 06:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time and tell him how you feel and discuss his shyness with him. He might be scared of making the wrong moves around you. So, talk with him and make sure he know what you limitations are and that he doesn't need to be shy around him. Good Luck!
2006-06-07 06:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure that he is shy? or is he not that interested in u i mean "i need some time" is girl's line but u have toughened up so try to seduce him may be his shyness may go away..
2006-06-07 06:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can't be rushed it comes at its own pace, he may be shy but would you want a guy who just rushes you in to any and everything. Be a little patient because when you are you reap the rewards.
2006-06-07 06:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? If you really do tell him you love him. To cure his shyness, take him to social places like the mall, or to restaurant's. Get him to see that you love him. Talk. communition is the key.
2006-06-20 07:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Shawn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ru sure hes shy. But if u kno he luvs u hell say it when the tymes rite. Dont push it out of him itll b weird. Hey I luv volleyball 2 I need sum pointers im really out of shape email me at
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2006-06-20 10:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he is still deciding after telling him many times, then be prepared to move on.
2006-06-20 17:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time. When the time is right, he will tell you he loves you. You rushing him may end the relationship. Be careful.
2006-06-19 07:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Godisaboveall2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still a little boy
2006-06-07 06:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋