i dont mind that he spoils me its just that i dont want him to like eventually think im using him or something like a sugar daddy and i care for him dearly so sometimes i pick up the tab when we go to dinner or he gets dinner and i get some ice cream or something afterward so how do i approach this situation ??
2006-06-07 06:15:50 · 21 answers · asked by prgurl2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spoil him back.
If you don't like him, dump him now.
2006-06-07 06:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by asaaiki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have just ran across a good man they all are supposed to be like that he is being a man let him and you be a lady or just tell him how you feel you could state phrases out of this question like "something like a sugar daddy and i care for him dearly " let him know
2006-06-07 06:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kind of cute. Hit me up at ninotyhol@yahoo.com so we can talk. But besides that. Let a man spoil you. That's just away they show you they care about you. Don't get comfortable where you depend on him because that's where it will become problem. Don't treat him like a dollar bill. And just do for him as he would do for you. Show him that you appreciate what he does for you. You don't have to spend money but you can show him in other thing. Use your imagination.
2006-06-07 06:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by nino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Appreciate the situation. Not nearly enough women get spoiled like this.
2. Be honest with him about your concerns, but don't make it too heavy. If he likes spoiling women, don't discourage him!
3. If you demonstrate your independence while still appreciating what he does for you, all should be well. Don't let him pressure you into doing things you don't want, but don't drive him away for being too nice. Talk about it. It's really no problem.
2006-06-07 06:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Son of Smaug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be glad that you have a man that spoils you...why would he think you are treating him like a sugar daddy??? if he is buying...giving you things willingly i don't so how he could think that...but if you suspect that he might just talk to him about it...be honest with him...honesty is the key to any REAL relationship!!!
2006-06-07 06:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by countrygirlcansurvive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He spoiles you because he cares for you. You should be happy and spoil him back. You're very lucky. Let him spoil you, he likes to.
2006-06-07 06:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by kimmyisahotbabe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a good head on your shoulders, and I would continue doing your part. It's nice that he spoils you, but by doing your part you will feel good about yourself. Good luck.
2006-06-07 06:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! Women deserve to be spoiled! As much as we do for the world, enjoy it!!!! More power to ya sister!!!!!
2006-06-07 06:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some guys they feel its an obligation to do this to get good with the lady's. If its something you feel strongly about let him know.
2006-06-07 06:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by alphamale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only american women have problems with this kind of thing. It's his money, let him spend it if he wants to. Enjoy, and always say thank you.
2006-06-07 06:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by paparicio 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋