Talking dirty in bed - turn on or turn off? in the context of a respectful relationship where it would be done to enhance the experience as opposed to demeaning the partner
2006-06-07 06:09:09 · 7 answers · asked by measureoflove68 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful with that. You could talk about it with her first and I would definitely suggest that. Some women are into it and some just never ever will be. Talk it over.
2006-06-07 06:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know in my previous relationships i talked a little naughty sometimes, but with the relationship i am in now, i just cannot bring myself to do it. Sometimes my fiance will start talking naughty and I just get so embarrassed. I will change the subject or just giggle a little. I believe it's because this is the first true love of my life and it feels like i'm demeaning our relationship if I engage in that kind of talk with him. I do have to say he really doesn't say anything too bad, but I guess it's just my take on it. One thing I do love about the way he talks when we are being intimate is he has never once used a derogatory name for sex....he always says"make love".that to me is what I call sexy!!
2006-06-07 06:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lot harder then it sounds ... talking dirty ... you don't want to sounds like a freak and don't want to be disrespectful so if you can do it and turn your partner on I say go for it.
Myself I don't think I like it too much, I like more of the whole hair pulling, gettin' sweaty, choke me type of sex .. but that's just me !
2006-06-07 06:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a turn on but you should ask her ahead of time what it is she enjoys hearing! Every lady is different! For me, I love it when my hubby tells me what he's going to do to me next!
If he is touching me and kissing me then he tells me that he is about to taste me orally, I go up the wall!
Talk to her and experiment to see what works and what doesn't
Have fun!
2006-06-13 07:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said: in a respectful relationship, yes its okay. But if you don't know this person well, it will make them feel like a slut! There's a difference.
2006-06-07 06:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by dbeautiful1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long u r with that person,..sometimes it is a big turn on,..sometimes its trashy,. just becareful when ur using it.
2006-06-07 06:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR THE SAKE OF ENCHANCING THE MOOD IT CAN BE A TURN ON
2006-06-07 06:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by yideopen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋