i have a house with 5 rooms and 2 of them r empty and the only person that lieves their is my mom dad and little sister thats it
2006-06-07 05:57:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Respect her wishes. You need to get a job and buy a house for your new upcoming family. Since she is pregnant, her hormones will go crazy. Don't make her do anything she doesn't want to do. Good luck and Congratulations on the pregnancy.
2006-06-07 06:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have a house, good! First of all enroll in a GED class and get some smarts so you can provide for your child by having a job. First improve yourself, keep in touch with the baby, and when you grow up yourself, the baby will notice this also and the mom can see a future being with you. Get your GED, learn a trade, and be someone for your baby to look up to. A man has two heads, one gets a girl pregnant and the other gets knowledge , respect, and an identity by being both educated and having a job. If you're lazy, then get a vasectomy so it won't happen again, that is being responsible. This way if you refuse respect and want to run this medical procedure will give you the freedom to always remain a loser.
2006-06-07 13:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by michael d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but now you're at her whim. You can't MAKE her do anything except let you see the child after it's born, and you are forever tied to this girl because of the baby. Best thing to do is try to meet the needs of this child to the best of your ability. That means (a) talking to your girlfriend about adopting the baby to parents who are married and can take care of him or her, or (b) marrying or living very close to this girl so you're a major part of the baby's life. Adoption isn't as horrid as it sounds - there are people who have money who want a child but can't have their own, and can provide very well. If you're as young as you sound, this might be a great option for both of you.
2006-06-07 13:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Married mom of 2, chem/phys tchr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your family will apreciate another baby screaming in the night. They already put up with two. It depends on your age... If your at the age where you should have a job, you should try to go get one, if your younger adn haven't completed school good for you for not quitting school! But I would suggestAsking your grilfriend to move into her apartment. Or suggest other solutions. Life sure is tough ;) Best wishes
2006-06-07 13:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decision you will need to start getting your life together though get a job and house witha nursery and dont ever ever dump her its your kid that you wont be seeing if you do once the babys born look at houses together
2006-06-07 16:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls are independent now a day's. when i had my 1st child i was 16. There was no way I wanted to live with his family. It's a comfort thing. Maybe you could move in with her or get your own place or maybe she just needs some time.
2006-06-07 13:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by jaymeaso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you thought u were mature enough to have unprotected sex with her and get her pregnant then you should be mature enough to get a full time job (assuming your not still in high school!) I wouldnt want to live with your parent either if i was her. You need to be a man and take care of your new family....not have your parents do it for you.
2006-06-07 13:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by gaigesmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol tell ur she is a part of ur life now cause ur going to have a baby then tell ur you have a little right to make ur both descion and ur babies then ask her u would love she comes and stays with u if she says no then well then try to make her happy by renting a small room apartment and move out with her
2006-06-07 13:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by b baller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying in Spanish "Todo el que se casa para su casa" and so basic what it means is if you get married or start your own family you must get your own roof to live under. If your that close to your family find a place close to them. If you are too young to get your own place try to convince her.
2006-06-07 13:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by La Reina de la Pista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and face your responsibility like a man. You had enough guts to screw her, now you need to have guts to support her. Dont lay that responsibility on your parents. I dont blame her for not wanting to live there. She is going to be a mother and you a father. Now grow up and act like it.
2006-06-07 13:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋