I have to make an excuse to go to the bathroom and look at my stash before we have sex. Is this a bad thing?
2006-06-07 05:53:35 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men do this all the time...why not me
2006-06-07 06:04:46 · update #1
he is 7 inches
2006-06-07 06:34:51 · update #2
You must be sleeping with a terrier to do that lol
2006-06-19 23:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by seferitanner 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think it's a bad thing for men or women to do that sort of thing. If you are in a relationship with someone you love, you shouldn't have to do that. If he can't satisfy you without that then there is something wrong in your relationship. It's also bad that you are sneaking around, lying to him, etc. Just asj yourself how you would feel if he did that. I know women would consider it cheating if a man had to look at some other girl before having sex with her, I guess some guys would feel the same. Some would be ok with it though.
2006-06-20 09:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not really a bad thing the only bad part is you are sneaking to do it. Why go through all that trouble when I 'm sure if you go to one of those adult stores and get a movie you know XXX rated pick out one you like look at the guys on the cover and chose one you think will do it for you than take it home take your bf to the room with you and pop it in.Alot of guys get turned on my watching a X rated video with their girlfriend and you can get turned on by watching the guys everybody wins and no body is hiding or sneaking around. Good luck and have fun.
2006-06-20 07:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not based on sex alone, but sex is a very important part of a love relationship. The only "bad" thing I see in this is the sneaking and hiding. Why not try talking about it in the open (if he isn't too sensitive), then suggest that you enjoy a porn movie together to help you get into the mood, or ask for more foreplay, or teach him use his fingers or tongue to get you on fire. If he truly loves you, he would want to satisfy you too, and help you reach the heights of pleasure as well.
2006-06-21 05:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its very wrong, I am very small (6.5 inches) and this handicap has ruined my life completely. I cant even attempt sex because of my size, as i know i could never please any woman with it. I have had women before and all have laughed at my size so now i don't even use it at all. I am ashamed and embarrassed with my penis and if i was with a girl and she was looking at a well endowed guy then i would be so hurt that i would leave and never speak to her again.
2006-06-07 07:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay sounds like he isn't turning you on. not enough foreplay, maybe he is lacking at technique. Most women will tell you size doesn't matter, it does to a point is he average size below the belt 4 1/2" to 6" about 2 1/2 " around. Do you need more ? If you continue this relationship and he isn't pleasing, a person will seek what they need elsewhere only to hurt both of you.
2006-06-07 06:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by bigmihoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell I don't think it is a bad thing I look at it as amping yourself up for an exciting time with your boyfriend, there is nothing wrong with helping yourself get the full pleasure of you sex with your man. I do it and I have to tell you I enjoy it each and every time.
So do what you have to do and don't think that is bad, look at it this way:
You can be good when you want to be
And bad (very bad) when you too also.
Take care and get those boots knocked girl! :)
2006-06-21 04:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a bad think but it is kinda bad that you hind it from him. You should be open with the person that you are having sex with. And maybe there is something that you need and this is your way of covering it up. Talk with your man so that you two can figure it out together. Or maybe he would like to watch a porn movie with you, an maybe it is something that you BOTH will like
2006-06-21 04:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by spyder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a bad thing... but maybe there is something missing in your relationship with your boyfriend that needs to be addressed. We all have different needs and desires when it comes to sexual stimulation. For example: some women need lots of foreplay and if you don't let your partner know, then how is he suppose to satisfy you? You need to sit down with him and talk about it... what you like that maybe he's not doing to please you and vise versa. You would be very surprised what a little communication in the bedroom can do to keep your lovelife exciting.
2006-06-21 03:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Abby2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some guys do it too or they imagine it right? Why not. If looking at pics before you have sex makes you hot and makes for a hot love session why not then. Whatever is working for you I'm sure your partner isn't complaining. But I think you should keep it for yourself and not let him find out. He might get butt hurt! I don't think you're weird I think you just know what you like.
2006-06-21 02:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he doesn't know. And if he does know and doesn't like it, then I suggest you two work something out. And you're wrong about men looking at porn all the time before they have sex. I don't do it. To me, that's kind of disrespectful to the person you're with. But that's my opinion. As I've said, as long as you two are in agreement about your little bathroom shenanigans, then do what makes you happy.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-18 19:24:18 · answer #11 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋