Is it wrong to still want to be considered "hot"?

Question

if I'm a wife and a mother?

By the way I am very caliente.

Answer 1

Who doesn't want to be a MILF???
It's good that you want to take good care of yourself and be attractive even if you are off the market... I have seen too many mommys turn to into a fashion disaster with mom sweaters and high rised jeans...

YOU GO GIRL!

Answer 2

I have a wife and she's also a mother to our child...and she's hot!!! I think you have every right to want to be considered hot still. There's nothing wrong with it, because maybe that's the way you always have been, and want to stay that way. It's a nice feeling when you walk around in a store and you see people rubber-necking and checking you out right? It's not that you have to act on that, after all you're a wife and mother...but it gives you that special feeling of being young and attainable! Good luck!

Answer 3

I am a wife and mom also and you need and want to still be considered hot after having babies. But you need to have you time and dress nice and its hard to keep up with, which i think it is, but the better you feel about your self the hotter your attitude will be and you of course too!!!!!! Just say i am a hot momma!!!!!

Answer 4

Not wrong at all!!! I'm a hot mama too! ;-)

My motivation came a couple of years ago when I was taking my son to school and realized how many moms just don't take care of themselves. No offense ~ I'm busy and overworked too. I still manage to eat well, drag my butt to the gym, and put on make up and real clothes instead of sweats before I leave the house. I like looking cute ~ and my husband likes it too!!!

Answer 5

Never who cares if you are a mother or a wife neither of them did you have to sign a paper saying once you become either or both you have to not look hot. GO for it whatever makes you feeel good.

Answer 6

Of course is not wrong to be able to feel "HOT". A sexy/pretty woman is always a good thing,but being 'hot" is not more important than to be or feel beautiful. The older we get the less 'hot' we are going to be so being beautiful inside is more important:)

Answer 7

You are only as young as you feel. If you want to feel "hot", go for it. It is a natural feeling to think you are not because nobody has told you that you are hot, for a while. Life is too short. Live it the way you want.

Answer 8

Of course not! All people want to be found attractive, there is nothing wrong with that. It feels good to know that people still find you attractive after you have had children or even if you haven't. It's just a good feeling and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Answer 9

No way, im sure it will please your husband if you are hot. After my wife had our son she completely changed her outlook on dressing attractively. It really pisses me off. She will say that she doesn't want to wear some of her old clothes that I really liked because "thats not something a mom would wear". Now she dresses like my mom....

Stay hot, your husband will be glad you did.

Answer 10

Nope! I am a wife and mother also and love it when my husband or even a stranger tells me I am hot. We all need our ego stroked now and then, it is only human nature.

Answer 11

I don't think so. But I think "hot" is an attitude more than it is physical appearance. "Hot" is a combination of brains, wit, humor and compassion that affect the way one's physical appearance is perceived...in my humble opinion.

I don't think being a wife or mother precludes you from being hot.