This man that I talked to for a week, then had one date will not leave me alone, and is a borderline stalker. I've tried everything to tell him I'm not interested, told him off firmly, the works. He is a psycho and talks about having a long term relationship with me, when I've made it blatantly obvious I only want to be friends. Any advice?
2006-06-07 05:43:01 · 11 answers · asked by tamitones1978 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that he is freaking you out and making you very uncomfortable. Tell him if he doesn't stop harassing you you will obtain a TPO- temporary protection order. You can get one at your municipal court, family division. Give him a chance to stay away after you've repeatedly warned him and told him how uncomfortable he makes you, if he doesn't listen, you should be afraid and for your own safety you should get a TPO. Good luck and stay safe!
2006-06-07 05:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well tell him that you arent intrested in him and to leave you alone and do not contact him and have nothing to do with him.i hope that works for you.I was in a very controlling and obsessive relationship for about a year he was nice at first but he had emotional problems and i thought i could help him and i grew to love him i fell in love with him but as time went on the more obsessed and abusive he got the more i backed off and i would work all the time thinking that would help it just got worse and i would come home and he would be on my door step then it got worse i told him i was going to move away i even was trying to sell my home but it just got worse then one morning he tried to burn my house down i saw him do this but we the fire or police dept couldnt catch him so i packed my bags and left about 1500 miles away and havnt been back since he tried to contact me for about 2 weeks and didnt know where i was it has been about 7 months i left my home and car and furniture and alot of my personal stuf it has been hard emotionally for me but i had to do it and life is getting better it has changed alot i still believe it or not love this guy but i know now what i have to do it is hard but i did it i got away i honestly believe i wouldnt be on this earth today if i didnt do what i did so good luck to you and just get away from him it just gets worse cc
2006-06-07 13:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a boyfriend and have him talk to the guy and tell him,
"hey leave her alone she's my girlfriend and if you come near her i'll kick you a**" or you can file a restraining order against him ...
2006-06-07 12:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Buttercup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help. Tell someone he wont leave you alone. Tell him again not so firmly or nicely.
2006-06-07 12:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but if you find out let me know. My son has an ex girlfriend that won't leave him alone. She broke up with him now wants him back. It is driving him crazy!
2006-06-07 12:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Wilma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, and if he persists, let him know you will call the cops. Some states have anti-stalking laws (NJ, for example). I hope it doesn't come to that, but some guys are nuts.
Good Luck.
2006-06-08 12:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find ur self a man or a boyfriend and then he will know to back off cuz u got a man....or just call the cops on him.
2006-06-07 12:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 38 to the head works wonders.
2006-06-07 12:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hey you can't make me love you and if you didn't push so hard maybe we could be friends but nothing else!
2006-06-07 12:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut off all lines of commuictaion. tell him to get lost and if that dont work tell him your a lezbian lol.
2006-06-07 12:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by lady_to_know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋