His ex-fiance asked for another chance. He is willing to give her that chance with a two month ultimatum, that if they get into a "stupid fight" or too many disagreements during that time then he is gone for good. Im not sure why he is giving her this chance. He wants to know for sure that she is the wrong one. He still has feelings for her and I told him that if they broke up in the first place for a stupid reason then he should give their relationship another try. He wasnt officially with me yet anyway. Was I wrong to tell him that? Is he wrong for going back to her with an ultimatum? What should I do now?
2006-06-07 05:32:54 · 16 answers · asked by nikadrianacl01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard it was for you to tell him to go foward and try it out again, its not bad for you to think like that, that way he will know for certain, that she is good or bad for him, but if you really care for this guy FIGHT for him dont let that women take him. Show him you are better than her, and you will not ever give him an ultimatum, or put him on a test like she has.
2006-06-07 05:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 8⤊ 3⤋
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2016-09-28 04:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is wrong about anything. Everyone is trying to sort out their feelings. Don't promise to wait for him. Live your life as if he is not coming back. If he does come back, then you can date him then. Cut off all phone and email while he is attempting to reconcile with her. He will call you at the end of 2 months if he wants to see you again.
2006-06-07 05:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously loves her or he wouldn't be "trying again" and you did the right thing because if you "really" care for him you would want him to be happy no matter if it was with you or with her. However if he does come back and your not already dating someone I'd let him know you are doing the on again off again thing and he better be sure this is what he wants especially with your son involved.
2006-06-07 05:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ask yourself, will you do the same if you were in his postion, dont just think about yourself too much, you will just give the chance if you were him, coz, at lesat, he loved her, and there is nothing wrong to make sure that he has no feeling for her any more. its good for both of you. if he found out that he is still in love with his ex, then this is good for you too, meanning you will not waste time on someone that you thinkthey love you, but they dont. and, you can move on to find someone that really cares about you!
2006-06-07 05:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by I WANT HAPPINESS TOO! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's willing to go back for another shot, you shouldn't hold your breath....you'll pass out! He loves her, and if you weren't officially together then you shouldn't hope for it to happen, cause even if it does, he could do like most people and give her another chance after another chance (after another) good luck!
2006-06-07 05:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Momof4:nomore! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a situation that u r prolly better off staying away from. The only thing that will come of it is getting hurt and being very very paraniod with everything in ur relationship with him,should it ever come to that. :)
2006-06-07 05:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wait? Why are you so calm? What are you worth my dear? Much more than this treatment I'm sure. He is leaving you for another woman. Get pissed off... because he made you believe you and your child were loved by him, but obviously not enough.
2006-06-07 05:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were being supportive, so it wasn't that bad saying it to him. But how do you feel about being dropped? They obviously fight a lot over silly things, so they might not make it.
Besides if he keeps being flaky and can't choose you have to think about you son. But I'm sure he'll pick you.
2006-06-07 05:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to see him happy you were not wrong. you should just wait around and see what happens. if things don't work out well then you can start things with him again. if they do work out and they do end up getting married well at least you can buy a nice dress and be sexier then the bride.
2006-06-07 05:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋