Ladies. what makes a good lover?

Answer 1

a good lover... puts the other person first.... is never selfish...and always finishes what they start....lol...

Answer 2

A good lover, that's a man, knows exactly how to please a woman. Sure, us guys would love to just stick it in and out and be done with it. This isn't the case with a woman. You want to make sure your room smells VERY clean and fresh. A vanilla scent is the best because it's a natural aphrodesiac. Also, you will want to dim the lights and light some vanilla scented candles as well. Always have your bed made before hand too. A woman will almost never get into an unmade bed. Also remember to play some romantic music.

Now, after kissing her for a while don't remove all of her clothes at first. Leave just her bra and panties on. Kiss her errogenous zones like behind the ear, the collar bone, behind her knees, and her treasure trail. What you want to do is avoid ANY contact with her breasts or vagina. Kiss the skin around her bra/panties. Always remember to work your way from the face to..you know where. A lot of guys don't know this, but the entire body of a woman can be turned on so take your time and never rush.

After you've kissed her everywhere (except breasts/vagina) start by removing her bra. Pay attention to her nipples and caress her breasts with your hand in a smooth motion. Don't act like you don't know what the hell you're doing. After you've worked those breasts a little bit kiss your way down to her vagina and don't go straight for the clit. Instead lick the inner lips for a short while and then go for the clit. What you want to do is create a massive amount of anticipation so when you finally do touch something very sensitive, she reacts very strongly towards it.

After she's nice and lubed up from being turned on so much stick a couple fingers in there and point them upwards. The key is to find her gspot and gently rub it while you perform oral on her. Women generally like the pace to be the same until orgasm so don't go fast, slow, fast slow, keep the same pace. If she likes it fast, keep doing it fast. I usually have a pretty high success rating in the orgasm department with the above methods.

Well, I pretty much told you exactly what to do step by step so just do those things and you'll be the man. As for how to penetrate her with your manhood, read up on sexual positions and never forget to kiss her from time to time when possible.

Women please email me your thoughts and ideas on what I just said. I've always gotten pretty good responses but any more advice would always help. Email: [e-mail]

Enjoy :)

Answer 3

A good lover would be a person who makes you laugh and cares about you and puts you before his friends....Someone who rather be with me than watching tv or play games...Someone who treats you like a friend not like a princess who needs to be pampered all the time. Someone who's interested in what you say not how you look...

Answer 4

A good lover is a man who understands you the most,always there when nobody is there for you, always put you first and then shows you how much he loves and cares about you.

Answer 5

He has to know how to kiss. His kisses should be soft and slowly gripping the skin. I don't want to feel rushed. He should be able to satisfy me first and still have time for a third round. After sex, don't just get up and put your clothes on. He should me to take a shower with him and then share a late night snack in bed. He should then massage my back until I'm asleep and then quietly leave. That reminds me let me call Daryl

Answer 6

A good lover is a person, who wants the woman to be satisfied first, no matter what. Ask her what she likes while your kissing her body.

Answer 7

A lot of passion.Kissing and licking unexpected parts of the body like legs and elbows. You have to find sensitive locations to touch that make her jump in excitement. Know when to go slow and soft and when to rough it up a little. Don't use all your tricks at once, introduce them one at a time to keep her interested. Trust me she will yearn for you

Answer 8

a man that puts your needs first. one that will ask you what you like, and care about you. stamina is good too, and don't let the other girls fool you size does matter. he has to be nice outside the bedroom too. and be able to talk to you before he falls alseep and be up for round two when you are ready. lol

Answer 9

Some one who treats you with kindness and respect, while being great in the sack is a plus, it can't compare to some one who will hold open doors and tell you that you're beautiful, that's worth it all.

Answer 10

I think it takes two people to mak one good lover....Both need to be open and honest and somewhat secure with what they are bringing to the situation. Be a little open to anything new...you'll surprise yoruself!

Answer 11

Someone who cares about her feelings, doesn't rush her out of the front door afterward, and who understands that intimacy is not just about sex!! Holding each other while sleeping is just as nice and it lets her know that you are not just trying to stick and move.