i hav worked very hard to look beautiful over the yrs and now finally after losng a lot of weight i am being treated nicely by everybody except her. i m thinkin maybe she doesnt like the new me.
2006-06-07 05:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by tatania 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
First I want to say.....WAY TO GO!!!
It's very hard to lose weight, you should be very proud of yourself!
Sometimes when a person loses weight they gain a lot of attention they never had before. Sometimes the person who loses weight gains more self-respect and pride. Sometimes when someone loses weight, their attitude and demeanor changes. Some people feel threatened when someone they know has gone through a major weight change, whether they gain or lose weight. Sounds like your friend feels threatened by the change in you, whether it is your weight or maybe your attitude has changed....maybe you are too confident and they feel less important to you.
And maybe, she's just jealous of the fact that you have changed and she isn't getting the same attention as you. If that's the case, there really isn't anything you can do to make her feel better about herself.
Talk to her about it, ask her what's bothering her. If you find out that she is envious of the new you, you have to decide whether you want to keep the friendship and work on it, or let her go her own way if there doesn't seem to be a solution.
Good luck!
2006-06-14 02:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Amy Swallows 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I basically needed to shed some pounds, so i began out jogging greater- parking further far off from my trip spot, taking the stairs (you have heard that one a lot, suited?), doing much less effective residing house artwork just to burn greater energy and reasonable work out. additionally, I take 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar earlier 2 of my each and daily nutrients. It enables help in digestion and a million different issues. On general, people who use it unfastened 2 pounds each and every week. i've got lost the surprising quantity of weight interior the surprising time. i've got additionally began to consume smaller greater everyday nutrients and consume purely until i'm complete. I attempt to no longer consume something after 8 P.M. to grant my physique it sluggish to burn it off. i can greater healthful decrease back into my clothing and my legs and face seem super! There are components that want firming, yet i can do it. Whatdoyathink?
2016-12-08 07:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by leja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you've become conceded and superficial? that would explain it a lot better, a long time friend isn't just going to start being jealous out of no where.
looks really don't matter as much as it seems like you think they do.
2006-06-07 05:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by scarlit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, if your getting anymore attention than usual that might be it. Maybe, you have become distracted and she thinks that you don't care about her? I'm sure its all just a misunderstanding. Have you already tried talking to her about it?
2006-06-13 17:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very much usual....specially among girls! they jus fear all their charm would be overpowered by urs in a public place...say lik a party....every women wants to look better than the rest....no matter how good a frnd of hers u r!
2006-06-07 05:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by asdfgf;lkjhj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be jelious, and not a very good friend at all..... sit he rdown and talk to her, and straight up ask her why her actions have changed towards you.
2006-06-14 04:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kjo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may also wish that she could do the same. She ought to know that you're still the same person -- you are, aren't you? You haven't let your body go to your head?
You might let her know that you feel hurt.
2006-06-07 05:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes jealous, because you look better than she does, and you are getting all the attention that she is used to getting.
2006-06-07 05:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋