I like her so far but I don't know how to proceed with this situation. What do I do on our first meet and where would women like to go on their first date? Help ladies.
2006-06-07 04:21:29 · 9 answers · asked by Lae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a call back man. She'll be more than happy to hear back from you. If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call. As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back. When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal. In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell. During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all. Let her be the first one to touch you. When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest. Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table. Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest. She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so. Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway. As for where to take her, do something simple. Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates. The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age). NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken. Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan." Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you. In general, the less you try the more success you have. And finally, be chivalrous at all times. Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door. Women appreciate a man that is looking over them. Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
2006-06-07 04:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by TonyDrummond 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
call her back and ask her out and don't do anything where you really have to make conversation because what if there is noting to talk about do something like 4 wheeling or you can go boating or play mini golf or go carts or all of the above. Just make it fun and interesting
the second date is when you turn the romance on and the third date is when you kiss but not before unless she starts the kiss don't refuse her
sometimes romance especislly on the first date can be aquward but do make sure you have some down time to talk to her and get to know her you must mix romance into the first date too because you don't want her to put you in the friend zone
2006-06-07 04:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be more respectful to a woman, you should call her. dont leave her hanging around at the phone waiting for you to call. on your first meet to this woman, give her a red rose,and a kiss on the hand. weird, but it could work. on your first date with her. take her somewhere quiet. like maybe somewhere outside. have a little picnic first, then go somewhere quiet. you should take her slow dancing under a beautiful sunset, so many pretty colors, and little music,candle light, and a little bit of wine not to much you dont want her to get drunk.lol. strawberries dipped into chocolate. have a nice conversation just to get to know each other. have a little walk around. dont slig your arm around her neck. while you are walking around,put your hand slowly down her arm and hold her hand. us ladies can tell if a guy does that he has gentleness, sensitive,etc. type of person. and also know how to love a woman.make her laugh a little, dont be to serious about everything. just be romantic guy that you can be, :)
2006-06-07 04:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by sexysweet69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if U like her Call her back .And take her out to see a Flick or something .Com on Dude what RU waiting 4 she made the 1st move now it's ur turn.U gotz 2 hit that ..dude that dude with the step by step instuctions is wacked U gotz to follow UR heart .and do what feels good 2 U .Thats it UR a dude & she's a chic Right ! So Get Down..
2006-06-07 04:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her. On the first date, you should take her somewhere that is quiet and romantic. Maybe a resturant that has soft jazz playing. If I were in her shoes, I would also want to maybe go on a walk, either in a park or on the beach, if there is one available. Not a fast vigorious walk, but a slow holding hands walk. Good luck, man!!
2006-06-07 04:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by biprincess_4202004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her back. Women want instant reassurance. As to where to take her....who about a romantic restaurant, or find a place by the beach where you can have wine, and just talk and relax
2006-06-07 04:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly question> does she comprehend that ur attempting to schedual a rubdown. cuz if she would not then u can use that when u call her and ask her if she has confirmation or no longer... say something alongside the lines of "hey, after bowling im attempting to get a couples rubdown in so do u wanna pass" good success bruh
2016-12-08 07:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by leja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not call back if you don't like her: this may lead to further troubleZ:
1.) Recall
2.) Ditch
3.) Outcall
4. (optional) rape
2006-06-07 04:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her duh-- why is everything such a game when it comes to dating, just go for it, the worst she could do is say no-- and that's highly doubtful because she called you right? so where's the stress?
2006-06-07 04:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋