2006-06-07 04:17:16 · 13 answers · asked by Marcus W 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Congratulations! Be supportive, ask questions and get informed. Don't be invasive or pushy. If possible and if your other half wants you to, go with her to the doctors appointments, thats a good place to learn what to expect over the next few months. If you have any in initial questions a good person to ask would be the doc. Once again congratulations and enjoy!
2006-06-07 04:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you said the key word "DADDY". Anyone can be a father but it takes a real man to be daddy. That's a good start for you. It is a long nine months a lot of happy times and a lot of tired times sometimes painful times. The womans body goes through great changes. So be paitent with her and very understanding. Kick back and enjoy. When you hold your little bundle of joy in yours arms for the first time it is the most wonderful feeling the the world that you will ever have. Oh and the most important thing is a job. I hope you have one because raising a child can be costly. Good luck to the both of you.
2006-06-09 09:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first be calm. Next do you have a job? If you don't how will you support your child? Do you want the baby? Does your GF or Wife want the baby? If it's early you can still get an abortion. If your both ready for being parents than good, congratulations!!! Go to the doctor with her, go the classes with her, support her every way you can. Enjoy being a parent, it's a good thing!
2006-06-07 12:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by AXEMANSIXSTRING 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support your girlfriend/wife... She is going to be sick for a while -- hold her hair while she pukes, bring her crackers to bed before she gets up -- do anything in your power to support her.
If you guys are young, you're probably both terrified... Either way, just be there for her in any way you possibly can.. that's what she needs most right now -- And since she's not feeling great -- don't forget to tell her how beautiful she is, and how much you love her..
Good luck, Daddy
2006-06-07 11:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by K.rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one day at a time and until its born the only thing you can do is make sure she gets prenatal care after birth your in for a lot of fun just hold on and enjoy the ride by the way how old are you do you have a good job if not get one do you have a place to live if not get one and hey good luck
2006-06-07 11:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know your age first of all but it's normal to be worried just as it is for your well baby's mama(if it's her first) or not but you can buy books for new fathers talk with your own parents if that's possible, most of all be supportive to the mother of your child. Good luck Tracy
2006-06-07 11:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive and understanding. Try to make it to some doctor visits. If you arent married, you need to be responsible for at least half the medical bills and child care. I suggest you get a job if you dont have one.
2006-06-07 11:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE there for her, support her in every way but mostly just communicate with each other and try to go to at least one of the doc. visits, the heartbeat is amazing
good luck!
2006-06-07 18:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by kayla_ann_simmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of the child & be with the mother through all of it, including when your child is grown. don't abandon your responsibilites as a father. EVER. And if you aren't going to be together than you need to pay child support.
2006-06-14 10:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by teambargain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats!! Be supportive and thoughtful and for goodness sake don't complain if she doesn't want sex or if she wants it all the time - her hormones will be crazy and you'll just have to be patient after all she is bring a little piece of you into the world
2006-06-07 14:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by prettyfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋