ok ye she does love me he shows it all the time and wheni'mnot around him i feel like crap thats how much i love him but all he thinks is about is getting me into bed and i dont want to because what if i do get pregna thast what i'm worred about he wants a kid and so do i i just want mine after 2 or 3years after collage so what schould i tel him i mean he's sweet and nice but i 'm not ready so what schould i tell him??
2006-06-07 03:55:58 · 14 answers · asked by ashley o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that ur not ready, if he loves u he will understand
2006-06-07 03:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO means NO
however you may try other things with him there are lots of things you can do to get each other off and not worry about getting PG
and i admire you for waiting to bad not more like you good luck
ps condoms do not work i used 3 at the same time now ive got a 2 year old boy
2006-06-07 04:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im fairly particular your household isnt going to sense good about it. From my standpoint and me remembering being 17 i presumed i became in love yet grew to grow to be out after I were given older i realized it wasnt. I dont understand suggestion on the thanks to have an interest in someone that a lot older than you. What do you men have in hardship-loose? He has lived fairly a lot his entire existence. He isnt going to wish to bypass out and get mutually with you hes been there executed that. you've so a lot more suitable to stay for and to adventure. even with the undeniable fact that Im no longer judging you or telling you that you need to split wiht him. in case you sense like hes the single the finest for you. I in basic terms fairly imagine in a lengthy time period down the line you'll remorseful about being in any such extreme courting at any such youthful age.
2016-12-06 11:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means wait! My daughter had aspirations to go to school and become an FBI agent. She was in love with a guy, relented to his demands and had sex and ****** off her FBI career. She has a degree in Graphic Arts now, but it was very difficult to do raising 3 kids.
Wait by all means if you value your career and want to have fun before raising a kid. I see young, single mothers on a daily business will unfulfilled lives because of an inability to control their sexual passion.
2006-06-07 04:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it seems like you are young. Your spelling leaves much to be desired. That's another story though. If you don't want to have a baby before college is over which like i said seems years away for you, i would either just tell him or i would think about getting rid of him. no one ever said life was easy. It's full of twists and turns and tough decisions. If he can't respect you enough after you tell him about it, kick him to the curb honey.
2006-06-07 04:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by prof56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. If he really does love you, then he'll honor that. And if he doesn't understand what you have to say to him, then he's not the one. No matter how you feel about him now, it will pass. You'll feel better about it later. Just feel your emotions, don't let them take control of your decisions.
I always live by this...Feel with your heart, but decide with your head.
2006-06-07 04:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you tell him is that you aren't ready and if he isn't going to respect that then you are going to leave him and if he lets you go then he only wanted sex from you and if he doesn't and leaves you alone about the situation then you know that he truly loves you!
2006-06-07 03:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should start off by tellin him that u really love him and that u really want to have his child.(etc). But, you want to wait intill you finish school because u know with school and all u want have an enought time to study and take care of the child.(etc.)
2006-06-07 04:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him wot yu feeel.. well if yu say him directly then maybe it can make him feel bad,, or use sum soft words..
well yu need to tell him.. or yu'l start to be in guilt-trap n all,..
so this is d best thing to do..
tel him!!!!
may GOd bless u
T.
2006-06-07 04:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by tanzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and explain that you dont want the risk of it...if he really loves you then he'll listen and respect your decision
2006-06-07 03:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by reyn09jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although i dont kno how i made sense of that... just sit down and talk to him. if you dont trust him... dump him u can do betta than that. if he loves you he will understand
2006-06-07 03:59:26 · answer #11 · answered by Sidney L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋