Hello, i am only 15 and on january i had sex my girlfriend she is preganant plz give me a tip of wht to do?SOS

Answer 1

you did it already and there is nothing to do now but to take responsibility and care for her and the baby. you have chosen a path to grow up fast and you will, like many others adjust. I would consider going to an adult school and finishing school early so you can work. do not depend on others more than you have to. I left home when I was 15 and got pregnant at 18 and raised a son alone...it is no big deal, you can do it. besides she is the one having it and you have ruined her body, life, and chances of making a career...you owe her to help her financially and be a good dad for your baby. you knew sex made babies right? did you wear a condom? ask for help and direction from your father and he will steer you in the right direction and help you to do what you have to do. you are a good guy and I know you will do well. I guess because I have a daughter I feel you made a bad choice but a baby is the best thing in the world and you will love the baby and work hard because you will want to after you see the reward you get from being a good man.

Answer 2

Is she keeping the baby and has she told her parents? I know its tough because you are still a baby yourself. You don't know how to be a dad. However whats done is done. Even if you and your girlfriend break up you need to be there for your child. As you grow you will be happy that you and your child have a relationship. Help your girlfriend because I'm sure she is scared too. When a girl gets pregnant she has a big responsibility when a guy gets a girl pregnant they can walk away. PLEASE don't do that. Stick it out. It will turn you into a better man. I have to tell you a friend of mine got his girlfriend pregnant when he was 13 and he is now 26. He and his daughter have a great relationship and she loves her daddy and he loves her. He never walked out on her life he saw her every day when he was with his girlfriend. When they broke up he kept the baby over night and would pick her up after school for a few hours. In the summer time he would keep her for a week at a time to give the mom a break and they are still good friends and that's important. I am so proud of him and so is his family. You can do this you will need support from your family but it can be done. Let us know how you do...

Answer 3

You had the 15min of fun, now get ready for the consequences. You should let her parents as well as yours (if they dont already) know about this and get ready in becoming a father. I hope next time you decide to have sex you think twice. Good luck though I know you will be more than overwelmed with things. Just keep your head up and continue life, this is not the end

Answer 4

IF you had sex with her in January and you are JUST finding out that she is pregnant?!?!? odd.. but ok. Well I suggest you tell your parents and you get a job. Becuase i know that school, family and life has informed you about the effects of having sex and getting someonepregnant... and you should own up for doing both.


HEY SUNNYH.... thats real cool... I can see how you fix your problems. What if your parents werent ready and just "got an abortion"... U WOULDNT BE HERE MAKING A STUPID REMARK!

Highlander is a @ss as well

Answer 5

I was a mom at 15 got prego when I was 14. I am 25 now my son is 9. I am not telling you things will be ok. I am telling you that this is something you need to deal with. My parents weren't happy but knew that I needed them more than ever. I raise my son alone, his dad only made things worse. But really he is my best friend now. No matter what your age you can be a good parent if you put your heart to it.

Answer 6

Don't they teach you what birth control is in school??? Condom/pill/IUD, etc... there are so many ways to prevent pregnancy.. and only one way to get pregnant -- figure it out!!!

But now that you're in the dilema --Now she is too far along, and you are going to have to have it -- She's what - 5 months - due in October... Hopefully you guys have supportive parents that will help you out. Get a job -- McDonalds or a car wash, gas station -- anywere you can because kids aren't cheap!!

I hope that now you've learned your lesson,and know how to prevent this from happening again. If you get her pregnant again next year, then you are both idiots, and don't deserve kids if you can't take care of them

Answer 7

You definitely have to be a man about this situation. You laid down to play grown-up things, and now you must pay the consequences. I for one also thing that what you and your lady friend did, was not responsible at all but the child should never have to pay for your mistakes. DON"T BLAME THE CHILD LIKE MOST PARENTS DO!!!

Answer 8

you have to face the consequences, you need to grow up real fast and be apart of your childs life. Be there for you girlfriend and your unborn baby. If you girlfriend is 15 as well, she is more than likely going to need as much help as she can get.

Answer 9

Well it is time to grow up and face responsibility. Whether you really wanted a child or not it is time to step up and except it. There are going to be rough times ahead but take it one step at a time and let your parents help guide you.

Answer 10

seek SOS from family and social services. don't cry, it 'aint the end ya kno? if u don't want baby, put it up for adoption wen u guys get it, talk with pregnant girl about ur guys future. r u willing to mary her n take cair of baby? tel girl 2 c doctor for her health and baby's too. read up on mags, books, and pamflets abut teenage pregnancy, do ur reserch on this topic. nd don't b scaired about it all, dat's life u kno?