Girls = money minded?

Question

Why do most of the girls aim for purse and credit cards of boys before on a date and love????????/


I see a lot of them leaving behind a good poor buy to bad rich guy???

Answer 1

Unfortunately, you might be right for many girls, especially if they are in a desperate situation, including family debts, etc.

However, it must be rare to find educated girls seek that. They usually are much more independant. They'd often be off better alone than with a guy (rich or not)!

I'm a guy, but, hey, I know how many guys treat girls bad... so I think:
- girls must get educated (go to University, follow specialization courses, ....)
- girls earn a state-of-mind of independancy
- girls make their own money, and live better

My lady is educated and all that, and she'd not with me for a financial reason, or she'd be gone since a long time !!

Guys must deserve their girl, and girls get respect when they don't NEED the guy.

Answer 2

Now this is very unfortunate, but that's the way it is in todays society. There are a lot of females out there that are independent and will take a guy for mind over money... Some of them look for guys with a good personality and a good heart and in my book, that precedes what's in your wallet...However, noone wants someone who is flat broke...or lazy...and who just REFUSES to get out there and get a job...Now that's a different story.

Answer 3

Girls = love and/or money minded

Answer 4

I didn't marry for money but I know someone who did, and she's not happy at all. I think in the wild, females (like peacocks and peahens) go for males with the brightest colours, largest tails etc.. it'd nature's way of keeping the best of the species surviving.
For humans, maybe these women are looking for survival, but it doesn't always work, because that's not what it should be about. And my friend is learning that the hard way!

If you are speaking from personal experience, don't worry, the smart/right one will come along. Money doesn't buy happiness, does it?

Answer 5

Girls = security minded!

Money is a part of that.

Answer 6

Most girls aim for the pocket, b/c they want the best. Some girls do it b/c thay ar emoney greedy and just want to use u. Others do it b/c they want to know just in case they have a future with u will they be kept up financially. Men don't carry that load by themself. I have dated a couple of boys that was money hungry. Just try to find you a girl that doesn't know what your pockets looks like.

Answer 7

i think sometimes that guys fall into this trap that they create for themselves where it's the man's job to pay for absolutely everything. that's silly. luckily i've never been like that. sure if i invite you out, i don't expect you to pay for hardly anything. if we're together, i'll probably pay for over 50% of things like strawberry shortcake and whatnot. but i've thrown enough money away over the years on females, just for the fact they were female. that's not a good enough reason for me any more. women claim to be equals and all that, so if that's true, then you can buy plenty of things too. maybe take me out to eat once in a blue moon. but in your case, it sounds like it's your boyfriend's issue and not yours. if he wants to pay ( and he's probably the type that would rather fight you than let you you pay ) then i say let him pay. you can't help he's a maniac with his money. whatever... best wishes

Answer 8

Same reason a guy will pursue a girl who is pretty or has bigger chest and nice legs. It's a choice, that's all. If you had money, it wouldn't bother you.

Answer 9

well there're some money minded girls but not all of the girls. maybe you are just so unlucky that you see most of them.

Answer 10

girls woman ,they are always think no by heart but with money tey 're no falled in love with you.find a girl sincere and all will go well.