was i wrong or right.
2006-06-07 03:20:54 · 16 answers · asked by Ivy B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think your wrong but i don't know all the facts. But my ex used to call me at my work but it wasn't anything at all. He only did that because I wouldn't answer my cell phone when he called. so maybe that's what happened.
2006-06-07 03:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by cali_gal716 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you were wrong. And judging from the replies there are many more insecure women who would make the same mistake. Being an angry jealous ***** is a turnoff. If I were him I would find another girl and then you can be the ex that bothers him at work.
2006-06-07 03:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true that it's nothing then he won't mind you calling her and telling her to stop calling, while he tells her the same thing ......in your presence. You need to tell her to stop calling TOGETHER so she sees you are now involved and he doesn't want her calling either. After that, it is a matter of harassment and restraining order to have her stop calling. Look at it this way, if he didn't take her calls, why would she keep calling?
2006-06-07 03:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by DELETED ACCOUNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right...
If he respects you and loves you, he must forget the past and doesn't accept calls/messages from her. Maybe it really might be nothing for him, but trully not for her.
Don't go arguing again to him. In a RELAXED VOICE/ATTIDE just let him know that you don't feel comfortable with those calls. Let him know that you feel unrespected with that attitude of him and you are just looking for respect.
2006-06-07 03:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by dioshy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a rest...how do you know she is calling...did he tell you? That is your first clue, isn't it? If he told you, then you are being silly and causing problems that aren't there. You cannot own someone because you love them...you will drive him away, right into someone else's arms. Be very careful here.
2006-06-07 03:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL U GO U ARE ALL THE WAY RIGHT BECAUSE HE HAS TO BE STILL TALKING TO HER IF SHE IS STILL CALLING AND WHAT COULD THEY POSSIBLY BE TALKIN ABOUT..... SINCE THIS IS SUPOSE TO BE A PAST RELATIONSHIP IF I WERE U I WOULD DIG A LIL FUTHER TO FIND OUT WHAT ELSE IS GOING ON AND IF ITS WHAT I THINK U NEED TO GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND LEAVE THE LIFE WITH HIM BEHIND
2006-06-07 03:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by yideopen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right cause i would do more than argued with my man i would have beaten that bitches *** or some thing i would have found a way to get even do they have kids well if he got kid with her it on another level but if not then your right and you need to tell him to tell her to back off or you'll do it for him
2006-06-07 03:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Man? Ex-Girl...
First... You determine what or what is NOT acceptable in your relationship...
But seriously... "your man" is not an OFFICIAL title, if you said My Fiancee or MY HUSBAND... then... I'd say... you'd have "CAUSE for PAUSE".
2006-06-07 03:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind, SHE called him, not him calling her. She might still want him, but it doesn't mean he wants her as he is still with you I wouldn't be concerned yet, but would keep my spidey senses open for discrepancies. GL!
2006-06-07 03:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by passionflwr24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is hard to avoid ex from calling. you just be cool about it, so that he wont hide it from next time she calls. once they do it in secret, you'll have worse problem.
2006-06-07 03:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by hsmnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋