He says he see's me as a friend , I need advice on getting him to see as more than that?
Do you think dress more sexy ?cause i am always very casual i wear jeans and t-shirts alot so do you think that would help?
2006-06-07 02:38:46 · 17 answers · asked by I_luv_my_kids<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think jeans and a t-shirt are sexy. Maybe he JUST SEES YOU AS A FRIEND. Don't try to hard that's not cool. Make him chase you, just don't show as much interest, maybe then he will be like dang, i kinda really like her now that she's not sweating me anymore. Good Luck.
2006-06-07 02:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by tbird00719 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Girl,
Do not change for him. Why would you want to live a false life not being the person that you are. Sure, some guys are blind when it comes to love, but usually when a guy says that, he may not just be interested in a relationship with you or he does like you back, but fears that your friendship may be at risk if things fall apart.
I suggest you tell him how you feel and see what he says. Don't change the way you are and if he still wishes to be friends, respect his wishes. With time, I'm sure that he'll know what could have had.
2006-06-07 02:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that will not help. Once he took you as a friend then its quiet hard to make him fell something else because that is the choice of his heart. You can try help him more and more and discuss sensible topics and always assure him that u r there for him always, any time he needs you. You have to meet his family members and also cook for him, it's always said that the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. They get impressed very quickly with good foods.
2006-06-07 02:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As others have said Be Yourself, that's who you are. This is meant to be the 21st century, why don't you just tell him the way you feel, maybe he's not picking up on your signals and you don't want to be seen as an easy lay.
This would do it for me, especially if you wore a skirt, it doesn't have to be short and don't wear any panties, and give him a quick flash of your inner self.
2006-06-07 02:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lexxstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh - you won't like my advice cos I will just say no, he won't change his mind. He doesn't feel that way about you in the first place. Dressing sexier will make you noticed but it doesn't mean that he will fall for you in the way you want. Physical looks by itself won't keep you in a long term relationship. It is better to find a man who will appreciate you much much more.
2006-06-07 02:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are a personality thing..if you want him to see you as SEX..then yes dressing different would work. Sometimes things just don't work out..stop trying so hard...love will find you (if thats what you are looking for ) when you least expect it.
2006-06-07 02:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by froglick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your hair, wear your skirt and talk sweet are the main things to get attraction. You are in love. Just do it. Go ahead.
2006-06-07 02:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by devid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl let me tell you from experience dont change yourself for a boy you like unless you go out with him and really love him because it doesent work if a boy says he likes you as a friend he likes you as a friend and nothing more just be yourself because he should like you for you not who your trying to be good luck
2006-06-07 02:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by whyt3gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself....dont change urself to please anyone. Only dress sexy if thats what u ginuinely want to do. Find urself a good man that loves u in ur jeans and T-Shirt. ;)
2006-06-07 02:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I see you more than a friend.
2006-06-07 02:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋