i want to tell him alot of things but i don't think he is ready to hear them. i just don't want to scare him.
2006-06-07 02:36:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a test ballon. Tell him that you have a lot of things going on and you really need someone to talk about it with but you don't think anyone wants to hear it. If he cares about you then he will tell you to talk to him, if he doesn't he will tell you to talk to a friend.
2006-06-07 02:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow and steady wins the race dear. No one needs an anxious kid. Play your cards well and take notice of signs. Play the safe mode for some time. It may be a little rash to open out with him because as you have said, it may scare him away. If you feel he's not ready, wait for him. It's not good doing love only for one side. It's quite selfish and may hurt him. Then, he might end up not talking to you, feeling shy....
2006-06-07 09:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by MissIndependanceday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know you should tell him in your own words:) It's never good to be in a relationship in which there are lies.That's the major mistake woman do today..they don't ell the whole truth or they pretend they are something that they are not and then....they find themselves into a marriage that has lots of baggage from the dating era.
You should be as honest and as blunt as possible if it's not a deal breaker you'll be happy you told him if it is a deal breaker you'll also be happy cause you'll know that probably he's not the 'perfect ' one.
Best of luck to you.
2006-06-07 09:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by isis1632 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..it really depends on how long you've been together...if you've been together for just a month i dont think you should tell him yet..but if you've ben with him for more than a month i think you should tell him...when you're feeling is right and you feel that's it's true, you shouldnt keep inside you..it'll drive you nuts coz you cant tell him when you really want to..
i understand you dont want to scare him from what you're going to say but just be cool about it..tell him that for a short time you cant believe yourself that this is how you feel about a guy..tell him that you're not expcting the same answer from him but when he does feel the same you would like to know..tell him you just wanted to let him know that...you're not rushing him into anything..
just realy relax and be cool about it..but make sure to tel him when you guys are alone...but dont lok so serious...coz then you might scare him..
2006-06-07 09:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by *sunshyne* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him hes your bf so you got to give repect and listen to him and he got to do the same for you every ones and a while tell him a little but do not scare him.Good Luck!
2006-06-07 09:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Hex Tropetor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him or he'll be wondering y u havent things will go a lot easer for u and if u tell him and he's not ready then its ur choice to waite for him to get ready or leave and find someone who is
2006-06-07 09:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time then when you think that he might be ready to hear it you tell him how you feel.
2006-06-07 09:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is ready to hear how you really feel.
2006-06-07 09:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dance Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't communicate with you then what do y'all have? there should always be good communication in a relationship, even if what's being said is bad, but all you need to do is come out and say it and if the response isn't what you expected then move on.
2006-06-07 09:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ur bf he should always be ready to hear anything from u
2006-06-07 09:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋