I have been on and off with a very immature guy and i will be moving out of his home, n 99.9% sure out of the relationship. He makes me cry, doesn't want to spend time with me unless I'm treating him to something, and he has no job and did not graduate. Well, one problem, I'm pregnant because I had gotten an anti-biotic from my dentist that interferred with my birth control. Now I was sposed to be in canada with my family but they didn't bring me because if something went wrong, so i went camping. I met someone else there who after spending last weekend with is a guy with similiar interests, dreams in life, and a good heart. He isn't dating because his gf of 5 years told him about cheating on him when he proposed :( Anyway, we had a wonderful weekend, but then I told him I was prenant. He talked to me the next day fine but said he was out of it. Now he won't answer my calls. He had said he doesn't want to move fast, does he just nee some time and how much? Or is it to the gutter w/ me
2006-06-07 02:06:32 · 6 answers · asked by kittieinavette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he prob. needs some time to think about it.
2006-06-07 02:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! i am sorry to hear you are in such a muddle !
The first boyfriend you mentioned sounds like a real no no ,. seems as, you are better off without him altogether.
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The man you went camping with, was also looking for a good time .
Telling him you were pregnant , so early in your relationship , not surprisingly,frightened the S**** out of him .
He has skedaddled off home to his regular girlfriend and safety .
When he says he does not want to move fast , i would read as " help !!! I am off out of here !!!"
So now you are stuck with (who's???) baby and all the responsibilities that go with .
Can you talk to your family about all this ?
Maybe they will give you the support you so need
Good luck dear and I hope things will come good for you.
2006-06-07 09:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to see it from his point of view, neither are out of their relationship emotionally . Its not a good idea to jump from relationship to relationship and something your going to find out real soon is dynamics change when a child is involved...not to mention even if he were to jump into a relationship with you he will experience a pregnant you...not the every day person you had been..but someone you've never been, with child...My advice is put yourself in the least stressful situation...which probably means start by getting out of the current relationship your in...if you have a good relationship with your parents, move back in with them....with baby on the way it would all make sense...and if this other guy should want to date you...make sure he is at least out of his relationship and preferably over it too...and take one day at a time...good luck.
2006-06-07 09:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off..If he comes back around then it means something if not let it go
good luck
2006-06-07 09:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are stressin it too much.
you will end up scaring guys away,
just try and chill, let things happen naturally
2006-06-07 09:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by loveyourspecialplace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, he doesn't want you or the baby... if you want the baby then be prepared to care for it yourself... you dont NEED a man, you know that... good luck
2006-06-07 09:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋