Can anybody explain to me the marriage tradition of a syrian muslim?

Question

Is it true that if a syrian man works abroad, his parents will fix his marriage (find him a wife)? And he have no choice but to follow them?

Answer 1

Actually, in Islam, both the girl and boy involved in getting married must agree to the marriage before it is carried out. In that, they have a choice in who they want to marry.

However, since dating is not allowed, and nor are premarital relations, people may wonder how do Muslims marry? It's actually very simple and an almost guaranteed success plan - the parents are the best people to help find the perfect suitors for their children. If they feel that they have found someone who's a good match, the two parties involved are allowed to get to know each other and talk and discuss whatever issues or concerns they may have in the presence of the girl's guardian, of course.

After that, they can take as long as they want for either party to decide whether or not they are content with the family, the boy/girl, etc. and then a final decision can be made.

But just to reanswer your question - the boy DOES have a choice. In fact, men in Islam don't NEED their parents permission to marry if they find someone suitable, however due to the great respect we are encouraged to show our parents, it is best to go through them and have their blessing too. I hope that helped! :)

Answer 2

When they desire to marry as consistent with Hindu rituals the lady has to first get modified as Hindu in Arya Samaj.For the ritual of Muslim marriage it's fundamental that your buddy converts as a Muslim. Otherwise the wedding isn't legitimate. Best resolution for them is to move for a registered marriage in order that each can hold to be what they're. They must each be taught to recognize each and every others religions and customs.

Answer 3

marriage in Islam cannot be done except with the permission of the man and the woman. they both have to say yes.

but some men trust his family for choosing a good girl for him, since they have different relations with many families. and since women can understand women, so he let his mother chose one pride for him for example.

but there is nothing is required. it's a choice.

some people prefer arrange marriage because it's easier that way. a girl is kindly wait for the man to ask for her hand. rather than searching for her man in bars or clubs.

it depend on people.

Answer 4

What would Jesus say......