Me and my girlfriend for a little over a year seperated. I love her alot, but this is the second time that we have seperated in less than two and half months. I still feel like I want to be with her and I think that she feels the same, but she just wants a break for a little bit. Should I get back together or should I just let her go fearing that if we do get back together then our relationship will end up back where it's at now. We both have faults that the other person doesn't really like but I feel that we both genuinely love each other. What do you think?
2006-06-07 01:58:51 · 25 answers · asked by Jeff R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think I better let her go...
Looks like another love TKO!
Don't remember who sang that but it fits in your case. Think about it, you've done the splits twice in one year. There is obviously something wrong and you two don't seem to be able to fix it so move on. There are PLENTY of other fish in the sea.... for both of you!
2006-06-07 02:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she calling it off then I think she wants to see other people...I'm guessing u both r 20 or around that age frame meaning u both r still young...I'm 22 and in the same situation...I've been through the break-up for awhile then get back together thing so many times. With the same person for almost three years now. And trust the situation gets worst. The best thing u could do is seperate and keep it that way. Especially if u both want to remain friends and love each other. This situation can turn into "hate". If it is meant to be then it would happen and u would know it when the time come. U two just need to time to figure out what u want and its best to do it now while u r still friends and love each other.
2006-06-07 02:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wwooooww my friend 9 times out of 10 when a female wants a break from a relationship is because somebody else comes to the picture, or they just want to go wild, I don't know much about your situation but once a good girl goes bad there's no turning back, a lot of things can happened when a couple take a break from each other and believe me the majority of the times is not pretty. Now think about it like this, you have something with somebody, you have intercourse with that person frequently and on those lonely days you have each other to talk, joke and fulfill each other needs, will you trade that for a night with your DVD player, your dirty movies and your favorite lotion? I don't think so, nether does she, get the picture?
2006-06-07 02:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by BulletproofBori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to yo yo like that for the rest of your life, stay with her. Sounds like you are both using each other as an emotional crutch. You both should move on while you are on good terms. You can always care about each other but realize it's nothing more than that. That would be a comfort don't you think to know there's always someone out there who cares about you and genuinely wants you to be happy.. You can be clear around the world married and divorced 3 times but still know she cares, and the same for her.
2006-06-07 02:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...m 24 n i guess my answer would be of help to you.i seriously suggest that u get back to her,fighting is part of a relationship n esp in this age.wat u are facing rte now is exactly the same with me n my bf too......we always end up together tho ther is no break up as such,just having sum tiffs n all.u both love each other a lot so why let it go.....confront her again,make urself comfortable with each other n get along again....i suggest that u get back together as that would be gr8 for both her n u....live life to the fullest with no regrets,learnin is a part of life....all the best pal!
2006-06-07 02:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by gail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, there is something going on in your relationship that is causing the repeated separations. If you can figure out what that reason is, and fix it, then you can fix your relationship. If you don't know what is causing the separations, then the same problems will resurface causing the same problems. Everyone has faults, but is there a fault that one of you is not willing to live with forever? If there is a "deal breaker", then don't waste your time.
2006-06-07 02:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let her know how you feel, if you haven't already. an open and honest sharing of emotions and feelings between the two of you can help to overcome many of the fears about the relationship both you and her may be experiencing, especially if you care about each other. maybe she feels she needs the space because she has fears about the relationship as well. that's my opinion.
2006-06-07 02:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you two been together? what are the reasons you seperated? if it isn't anything major maybe you should give it another chance. love is hard to find. if you think she just wants someone else though, you should move on. sometimes that is what a break means.what are her faults? im me if you wanna chat about it.
2006-06-07 02:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my ex were in the same situation and i always wanted to go on breaks, so i would advise the best thing for you 2 to do is to end the relationship one time to save any heart break.
2006-06-07 02:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give it one more so after a long talk with her about your problems and where you both want the relationship to go. If it doesn't work this time, chances are it won't ever. Sometimes love isn't enough.
2006-06-07 02:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋