Thia guy works in the same company i do. We have gone out several times but we are not into a relationship yet. My office mate makes everything she can to prevent this relationship. she has always been kind of jealous about me, not only regarding relationships but even in our work environment. She beguns playing around anytime she sees him and behaves like a ...(not very decent girl). What should I do? I hate making "war" about a guy. Should i just let him go?
Please give me some advice. Hope it would help.
Thanks
2006-06-07 01:56:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't cave into this girls jealousy. Stand your ground and if you like this fellow, and he you, don't let the immaturity of some work mate, change that.
You don't need to go to war to get your objectives. If you find that she has this attitude or acts mischievous when he is around, ignore her. The guy will notice this and believe me, he isn't stupid. He probably thinks that she is being stupid too and not bother with her at all.
If you like him and you see a possible future, follow your heart to the capacity that in can flow.
Now go and get him and shove her out of the way as you do it!
2006-06-07 02:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well I wouldn't give up, let her be the one acting goofy and silly when he comes around and you act all calm and collected and that is all it will take after a few times of seeing her be so childish and you are acting like an adult in the "working environment". Men may act childish and immature a lot of the times but, that is why they would much rather be with someone that isn't. Now how you act behind closed doors is a whole different story.ha
Good Luck! BUT, don't give up!
2006-06-07 02:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go about with your work! Ignore her and sooner or later she will come to her senses and as for the guy don't give up since a stupid gal wants you too!! If the guy is interested in you than go for it..... there is nothing she can do you know!!
Talk to her once like take her in the restroom and tell her to stop acting like a child and back off!!! If not take it up to your HR that's what they are there for!!
2006-06-07 02:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's such a ***** and she's jealous because the guy has not noticed her. does the guy knows about what she is doing? just ingore her and go after ur heart, u know in this world some will be happy for u and some will try to bring u down. dont let anyone bring u down, good luck.
2006-06-07 02:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds VERY threatened by you... That should be enough to make you have a laugh and feel good about yourself...
Speak to him about it, and get him to react to her, then tell her prefers a nicer girl, but that the creepy guy in the postroom (there is always a creepy guy in the postroom of every company) likes that kind of girl and he'll see about setting them up... ;)
Or see if she is interested in a 3some... ;) But you are in charge... :D
2006-06-07 02:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up on him cuz if she is jealous and desperate enough to act like that, he is gonna want nothing 2 do w/ her. Besides if he has gone out on dates w/ you and not her, obviously he would rather be with you than someone like that. She should grow up.
2006-06-07 02:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Francesca♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not hurdled by others and be sure that love dont cares for the persons who ae against u ok so jst think what ur heart says an be sure that world and the people will never happy if u evencut ur neck and throat for them so keep on going ok
2006-06-07 02:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dint let him go for Gods sake....Do you want your office mate to bully you into submission. She doesn't sound like a mate to me either...give her a hard slap across her rude face in front of everyone.
2006-06-07 02:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by jewel_o_th_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like his relationship & want to continue then dont go for your office mate just go by your heart, if your mate is female ask her that she like him are not.
2006-06-07 02:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by mountandew36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys never like girls who act "not very decently", atleast the real good ones dont. (only despos do).. those guys love good intelligent and caring girls... if he is one you dont need to make war.
2006-06-07 02:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋