I have this gut feeling that my friend slept with my boyfriend. If she comes over on the weekend and my boyfriend is there I feel like there is just this strange, awkward feeling between them. I know I am not crazy this is something I just know. I let my friend stay with me for a few months (Sept - Nov) on last year. My birthday I went to my mothers and left her there for the weekend. I came back home that Sun. morning and my boyfriend was there but she said that he was drunk and she is a friend of his family and she know's that he is someone's child and it would't been right to leave him outside in the middle of the night. I understand all of that but when I cussed both of them out and put them out of my place if it was totally innocent then she would have defended herself more because that is the type of person she is if she was just so innocent. This past weekend was the final straw and I can't go on feeling a certain way as if nothing ever happened when I feel like it did?
2006-06-07 01:38:47 · 9 answers · asked by twinkle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Revenge is good. Itll make you feel better.
2006-06-07 01:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Paratepaquelleve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust is an essential component of a relationship. In your case, you do not have trust. It may be because your gut feeling is right, or it may be that your gut feeling is coming from your past, perhaps even early childhood. You may never get to the truth of what happened or didn't happen that weekend, but it is essential for you to find a way to heal and rebuild your trust, so that in the future you may enjoy a deep and lasting love. Healing is a process, and the marsvenus coaches can get you on the right path.
2006-06-07 02:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by marsvenusgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should forget this incident and move forward look for better friends then they are. Its better to live alone rather then having crazy friends. You have always option to meet new people and good friends…look for better friends.
There is nothing called revenge in my dictionary only thing I can say your prosperity and happiness is the right revenge for those guys.
2006-06-07 01:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the story out in the open! It sounds like it was a mistake, a one off. Ask your bf what happened. Try not to be challenging about it because if he is sorry for what he did then you are going to forgive him, right?
What is bothering you is NOT knowing, so try and find out and deal with it. Don't think about revenge!
2006-06-07 01:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love revenge... I would lock her in a room (basement/attic) all by herself for 5-6 days... Just feed her bread and water... Tell her that if she ever wanted out then she was going to have to tell u exactly what happened when u were away....
have her write it down and sign the bottom... If she says she slept with him... Break up with the bf....
2006-06-07 01:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Presley C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait....and you're still with him?
Okay....listen to the voice in your head. Dump them both. Period. Revenge...? Well...that would take too much time and energy. PLUS it's immature. I know they both violated you, but just keep it moving. They will get theirs....trust.
2006-06-07 01:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by NYCchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away
2006-06-07 01:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Forever Fabulous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge solves nothing.
just walk away. move out. move on.
2006-06-07 01:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Spicoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what they say about a woman's intuition.
2006-06-07 01:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋