I like this guy yeah, he claims to like me too but when i refused to have sex with him,things changed and he said he's not ready to have a relationship at the moment which i know is a lie.
I still love him so very much but dont know what to do.
Dont want to tell him cos i dont know what he has in his mind and i want to try avoid any embarassement.
2006-06-07 00:50:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does a relationship have to be justifeid by sex?
2006-06-07 00:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex, you want a relationship. Unless he changes and is willing to wait until you're ready, or you change and decide you want to have sex with him, you're not compatible right now.
When the right person for you turns up, this will seem like nothing, although it's bound to be upsetting right now. At least he told you where you stand before things went any further.
2006-06-07 07:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by jocular_japes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could tell you to go for it and not worry about what happens after as you will live happily ever after BUT I WONT because it wont happen he just wants to sleep with you then a big fat nothing. I know it hurts at the moment but I would rather have you hurt now than be known as easy, which could happen if he brags about it to his mates. Hope you make the right decision good luck
2006-06-07 07:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by madge 51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen babygal, i wont be happy if this guy ignores u after having sex with u, let ur NO be NO, he's saying he doesnt want the relationship anymore cos u refused to have sex with him, i dont think he really loves u eventhough sex counts in love, if he really does love u then i think he should behave and wait, but if u r not ready for it, dont push it ok.
2006-06-07 08:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already made his intentions very clear to you. Why can't you accept it?
He only wants you for sex. If he cannot have that, then he's not interested in having a relationship with you.
Move on. Find someone worthy.
2006-06-07 07:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by rempuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't understand you are not ready he is a jerk there are a lot better fish in the sea. Don't let anyone pressure you to do something so they will get in a relationship with you, it's not worth it and you will regret it later.
2006-06-07 07:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of sexual frustration? I can understand where he is coming from, but I wouldn't go out with someone who wasn't ready for that kind of relationship. I think you should let him go and move on.
2006-06-07 09:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by xenobyte72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont accept anything less than respect. He doesnt respect you - just wants the sex. Find someone nicer.
2006-06-07 07:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trust there is no sex
Without sex there is no love
Try to manage it differently, do oral sex
2006-06-07 07:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by GATTI S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to wait a while before sex
2006-06-07 07:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora Tommorow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋