i had a miscarriage too and i know what you are feeling. Hope everything works out for you. So very sorry for your loss.
Yes.. You are more fertile after having a baby in there.. You could still produce an egg after you had the miscarriage and you could have gotten pregnant before your period came. It's probably not a GREAT idea because your body still probably needs to recover after that, but yes, you can get pregnant after.
Here is someone who has..
http://forums.obgyn.net/pregnancy-birth/...
2006-06-07 00:46:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Im here to tell you YES YOU CAN. Im infact about to give birth, but before this I too miscarried and the next month I got pregnant. The doctors advise you not to try for your body to recover better, but it won't hurt you terribly or the baby. Every woman is different. If your body is still not ready you 'could' miscarry again(reason to hold off); however, most women are just fine and end up with a perfectly healthy pregnancy. I also did not have a D&C. Not all miscarriages need one. That leaves you still very fertile. I would do the pregnancy test and go to the doctor. Make sure all is well. I know it can be very emotional since you just had a miscarriage. I was struggling with fears of loosing the baby again for awhile, but after you see all is good. It goes away.
2006-06-06 23:47:57
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answered by m0mmatcat 3
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What Is A Miscarriage?
A miscarriage is a pregnancy that ends before 20 weeks of pregnancy. This is before the fetus (growing baby) can survive outside of the uterus. During a miscarriage, the fetus, placenta and sac of fluid around the fetus are expelled from the uterusn — sometimes not all of these are expelled completely.
Causes of Miscarriage
A spontaneous miscarriage may occur because the fetus is not developing properly or because the placenta (the tissue that connects the growing baby to the inside of the uterus) is not attached properly. In many cases, however, the cause is not known. Miscarriages are quite common, occurring in about 15-20% of all pregnancies. Having a miscarriage does not mean you will not have a normal pregnancy in the future.
2006-06-06 23:17:34
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answered by Anonymous
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your body still is ovulating and yes you can. the reson thay say not to try for 2 - 3 munths. its becuse your body has to heal. ive had 5 in the last 6 years. your period mite be ereguler for awhile and you mite wont to see if if you need a 'dnc.' that will help to make sure you dont get scare tishu .
2006-06-06 23:28:50
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answered by red 1
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Once you have a m/c...they usually give you a D N C ..which means they clear uterus...that means that the eggs cannot settle yet...l had a m/c too and it took me 3 months to get pregnant again....good luck
2006-06-06 23:26:01
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answered by gengen 3
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wait because u might do like my sister she got prego so fast she didnt mourn the first baby and she lost it
if u know u are prego its life it dont matter how many weeks the baby is
2006-06-07 00:22:04
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answered by xplaygirlx206 3
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Yes, anytime you have unportected sex you take the risk of getting pregnacy even immediately after a miscarriage if you are ovulating. If you didn't have a period after the miscarriage there might be something wrong. I'd go see a doctor. Even if you are a person who doesn't have regular cycles you should still be seen.
I actually thought I had a second miscarriage with my son but didn't. I spotted during the first trimester with my son and shedded only bloody muscus which I thought was a baby. Surprises!!! I was pregnant. The spotting I was having wasn't from the uterous at all but from the vaginal lining caused by hormonal changes. So, you may in fact be pregnant or maybe not. I did one of those home pregnacy test not because I had morning sickness, never go that. THANK GOD, but because I was gaining weight. Well it said I was pregnant. The first thing I thought was another Prehystinalhydrodidifide Mole (which I'll explain later). I saw a doctor and he said I was pregnant. I continued to spot until the end of week 15.
I am sorry to hear that you lost the baby. Any time you loose a baby you should wait 2 to 3 months before having sex again just in case something like this happens. I am glad you did that. This allows the body time to go through a complete menstrual cycle and see if there maybe unforseen complications caused by that miscarriage. You may have still dead lining to be removed. However, if by now you've not had a cycle I would see a doctor again, which I hope you saw a doctor afterwards. For your saftey and well-being let your body rest. You have the so much time left to enjoy sex what is a couple of months! Hopefully it's not because you are pregnant but you are simply going through a confused homonal imbalance caused by the pregnancy. Sometimes it take a boost of hormones to get it back on track.
I don't know if you are interested in what happened to me but I thought I'd share this with you. It may or may not be of relivance to what you're going through but why I'm sharing it is to just give you an idea why time after a miscarriage is important because I had a botched miscarriage when I was only 19 and this is the chain of events that occured. My prayers are with you that nothing like this or simular is going on. This is the first one miscarriage (my second one never happend because I was actually pregnant but the spotting threw me off a little).
I had a botched miscarriage that lodged half way out and half way in the uterous during exit. My uterine muscles were too weak to extract the baby out so it lodged in the wall of the uterous. The medical name of this was "Prehystinalhydrodidiform Mole". I only had a small debris of baby so I kept having my periods but kept getting bigger too. I bled for two weeks lightly and spotted continually so lightly that it just looked like I was overly moist all the time. In three months time I looked 5 months pregnant. Test confirmed I had the mole and for the next two years I had 4 D & C, hormone treatments and chemo therapy. I couldn't even have sex for the first year afterwards. I was only 19 years old at the time this started. I was just out of hight school. I already had been working and got my apartment. I was ready to make it on my own when my world came to an end. I was told I'd be on chemo for 2 years and if I'd get pregnant during this two year time while undergoing all of the chemo I would die. Everytime my HCG test came back positive knowing I had no sex meant another D & C and more chemo. But the doctor assured me this would be find because they were only removing the root. So, I hung in there. Luckily my boyfriend stood by me and when I turned 21 we got married. We later had two beautiful children (which they said because of this mole I'd never have children).
Although our marriage ended 16 years ago and my children are now 23 and 20 years of age I never regreted choosing that long two years of no sex and chemo for the 20% chance I'd have children. I'm 48 and have had a wonder life with my children and honestly I'm glad I lost the first baby. I wasn't ready for it back when I was only 19. It is amazing how much a few years can make when you are getting yourself started after high school. The time given to wait from 1976 when I lost the baby until I finally had my son in 1983 that 7 years allowed me to go to junior college, relocate from California to Alaska, get some money saved and my husband and I put a down on a small home none of which would have been possible had that baby been born right after high school.
What is important now is to make sure you're not having medical problems physically and also that emotionally that you're okay. My prayers are with you.
Should you be pregnant I pray that all goes well with you. God always blessed my life for not getting the abortion that my husband wanted in both pregnancies. That is why we're divoriced. I went through too much to have my babies and eventhough the trip was hard getting them I'd go through it all gain to have them in my life. I know you will to even if they do come a little too early in life for you. Whatever decision you make to have it or not, I do pray if this isn't an ideal time in youre life to have this baby that you'd consider adoption rather then abortion. But I am a firm believer unless I can take you into my home and help with your prenatal care and help care for your during your pregancy it's not my place to judge you if you do what I couldn't do myself. My heart goes out to you and any single woman who is put in that position to make that decision. I've been there too and in return for my anguish for I was going to commit suicide because abortion was my only option I got the Prehystinalhydrodidifide Mole instead. God knew I could myself could never live with that act of taking a life of his creation. God bless you.
Love in Christ
Sister Buskey
2006-06-07 00:29:02
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answered by alaskanchatterbox 1
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its poss but i would wait.
2006-06-06 23:34:19
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answered by georgemi74 4
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