Girls preferably. I need your help...?

Question

For about two years I have been down about my looks and what girls think of me. Almost so much that it interferes with everything else in my life. I am too dazed, confused and too drowned in what women looks for looks-wise in a man, and feel that I am doomed if I can't aspire to these. I felt that no girls were attracted to me and instead I was ridiculed, laughed at etc. Whenever it appears that someone might like me, I just feel it is too good to be true.

- green eyes
- not muscular nor abs (my real concern is that I actually have a hole in my ribcage- just another cursing from God)
- two scars by my eye from childhood (some horrible girl at school called them 'cat scratches')
- I used to have a big nose, but I had a nose job and I feel so much better for doing it
- teeth- a little overcrowded on the bottom and my eye-teeth do stick out, but fine otherwise

I dwell too much on being a second-rate Brad Pitt and not on being a first rate ME, because being ME is bad- apparently.

Answer 1

It shouldn't be your looks that makes a girl like you. What should count is your personality. Because there is alot of handsome guys out there who know's that they are and act like punks. I know from experiences. In high school i always wanted to be with the football players and hangout with the good-looking guy's. But I have learn that the not so good-looking guy is the one who is going to treat you right. And to me that is what counts!

Answer 2

not all girls are that into looks. Some girls are into brains more as long as you are plain looking. Just pay attention on your weight, and become tall enough, being smart, successful , nice ,sweet and caring. A lot of girls will still like you..... from your description, I dont think you are terrible looking... Pleaes have more faith in yourself.Cheer up.

Answer 3

instead of dwelling about your bad looks u'd better go to college, get degree and get a lot of money. if u have money u will have the power. power attracts. not 6 pack or cute face. but according to your announcement now u re stuck on your looks, so probably u have no degree and no future and no money. so blame your brains, not your looks

Answer 4

wow dude i can promise that looks are like number8 on a girls list of things she wants in a man. confidence is key and the hardest to acquire just relax and don't get anymore plastic surgery.also try to look at yourself and find the good things not the bad. you'll find some girls find little things like your scars and things like that cute.confident be it!!

Answer 5

nobody's perfect, don't try to be different for other people see..most girls will notice appearance but they won't dwell on it once your personality shows..who you are is what could keep girls away not your looks and if it still bothers you make the best of your favourite features... green eyes...nice...

Answer 6

Green eyes are rather nice I think. Don't worry, you are fine. You are just shy and that's perfectly fine too. Reserve yourself and you will become more precious. Then you will finally find someone who will be right out of your dreams.

Answer 7

if you don't have any self confidence and self esteem it will show in everything you do i think you need to go get counseling for one,god didn't curse you he loves you I'm sure you have wonderful qualities and that's what u have too look at

Answer 8

I DNT THINK THAT GALS R IN2 LUKS LOT OF THEM JST THAT THEY WANT SOME TIME,CARE N UNDERSTANDING
U SHOULD TRY N WORK OUT ON BUILDING UR SELF-ESTEEM N 4 GODS SAKE DNT GET ANY OTHER WORK DONE.JUST TRY N BE CHILLED OUT N GALS WILL LU THAT

Answer 9

sounds like you need help dear. look for a good therapist....one can be obsessed with looks....