Im in a relationship with a girl who would be happy to have a 3 some if we werent so close and in a long term relationship, she feels it would affect the relationship and we couldnt continue, but if we were just friends of f**k buddies, then she wouldnt hesitate! What do other people think of this? Is she right? Wrong? Have you ever done it? Does it affect the relationship?
2006-06-06 22:43:07 · 16 answers · asked by nicktheo2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, 3sums are much better as part of a relationship. They do not effect them, and are more likely make them stronger!
2006-06-06 22:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by overload_uk 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
spudric13 you are so right i have done this and it completely devastated the relationship there was so much jealousy after from both parties, i had a very open relationship with a woman 20 years my senior and she was into swinging and mad scale orgies, swapping car keys and all that good stuff. I totally agree if you are just **** buddies then what are you waiting for but if you want this to work, then keep the women to your self. Don't share her with another man or woman, but remember if you do this make sure you both have clear signal for when things are getting too much or if there's a feeling of any problems oh and,Practice safe sex!
2006-06-06 23:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Keith W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a realtionship but dont really care about each other and know you wont be together forever it would be ok. On the other hand if you love this person and think you could have a future together dont do it because it will more than likely split you up. I wouldnt like to see my b/f with another women whilst i was in the room it would make me jealous upset and angry and if i had to think about him touching someone else all day long it would send me mad!
2006-06-06 22:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by ghm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it could, you may not look at each other the same ever again. You can't plan out something like that a million things could go wrong. Maybe she will like the other person more. She may feel guilty after, and break off the relationship because of it. Is it really worth it to lose her?
2006-06-06 22:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by marea918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooooooooo, don't go there. Once you have seen your partner with someone else, it is almost as if you condone getting sex elsewhere, and it may lead to feeling freer to go off and get intimate without you, or growing attached to the third party, or realise that they want to go off and experiment with lots of other people. All in all, a monogomous relationship should be just that, otherwise what is the point of being together.
2006-06-06 22:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every person and by implication, every relationship is unique. but yes, typically what you're thinking about is fraught with risks. who knows if the third person gets really interested in this and starts wanting more? or one of you two might start to have guilt or other feelings after it happens. if you ever want to have such a thing, the best thing would be to go some place else where nobody knows you, and do it with a stranger and come back!
2006-06-06 23:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by desperate_dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing your woman with another man can destroy you and your relationship, so she is right. Don't do it. Don't let foolish fantasies ruin your happy life. Find other ways to spice up your sex life. Toys and costumes can be really fun. Public sex can be quite exciting too, but you can get in trouble, so be careful. Threesomes are bad idea for a long term relationship, so try to kill the idea.
2006-06-06 22:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to mess with your relationship, but its up to you. For some couples it works great but for others it can lead to jealously and eventually break a relationship. There is a difference on whether its going to be a one off experience or a regular thing. If you see a future with this girl then accept what she wants.
2006-06-06 23:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by welsh_darkhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong in this situation because everyone feels differently and everyone has the right to do what they feel is right for them. Your girlfriend has the right to choose what suits her conscience and if you don't agree with her choice, maybe you should find a different girlfriend who's decisions you will respect.x
2006-06-06 23:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you are asking for trouble if you agree with what your g/f wants to do I expect you have already asked yourself why she is having these thoughts, if you have not I think you need to. I am afraid I believe in a two people relationship, but you must be having doubts as you have asked us your question I hope you listen to advice given
2006-06-06 22:55:01 · answer #11 · answered by madge 51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋