kind of in love. how to find out if he likes me?

Question

i'm kind of in love with a boy at school and i don't know how to find out what he thinks about me. (i can't just ask him, it's not my style to do that). we were all playing truth or dare and i had to french-kiss him, but he totally freaked out and he started laughing and said he won't do that. yet, i talked to one of his friends and he told me that we seem very close and he might like me, but he's a bit shy. i'm confused.. help?:)

we get along well as friends am we talk a lot, on almost any subject, from shallow things to philosophycal stuff..he was explaining smth once on messenger - he had a theory that the sea and the ocean are both visible in invisible ;))- and i told him smth like "ps: i don't know why, but i feel like telling you that you're crazy.. in the sweet kind of way" and he said "i'm glad:D".. he also asked if i was borring him, and he was hapy to find out that he was not. but we don't talk that muck at school, and when i asked him if he was angry about the kiss thing he quickly said no and he changed the subject.. :-??

sry, typing mistake, *if he was borring me

i'm not afraid of a rejection as a girl, the reason i don't want to ask him how he feels about me is that i don't want to risc losing our friendship, that isn't very strong yet, since i've only known him for half a year. and about the "the right guy will eventually appear"-thing, i could say that i don't believe in the so called "right guy", i think it's more about how much you're willng to give and to accept in a relationship

Answer 1

well, one thing, the term "we seem very close" was according to his friend, what matters is what do you think about it personnally? do you really think you are close enough? coz if you don't then there's a problem...

if he's into you, he'll make you feel how he feels...that's usually how it goes if someone is attracted to someone, if you know what i mean, if otherwise, just tell him how you feel and by golly who knows what's he's feeling...

give it a try

g'luck ;)

Answer 2

Take it slow. First of all, ask him if he wants to hang with ya after school or on weekend. If he says yes, then go and on the "date", ask out of curiousity if he has any feelings for you. Tell him how you feel about him and why and see what he says. If he makes a huge joke out of it, move on. He's not mature enough to take things seriously.

Answer 3

Girl, just get some balls and tell the boy you dig him. If he rejects you oh well, life goes on. You are still young and the right guy will come along one day.

Answer 4

i think you have to wait for him to babble about his feelings coz somehow your still a girl..,be patience..perhaps his just finding the right time,coz its quite hard to express what you really feel for someone that you truly love..dont give a big deal if he doesnt want to do that french kiss,maybe his just too gentlemen thats why he doesnt want to do that dare because of the feelings that he felt for you...

Answer 5

i know that it seems like an impossibility, but you should really just ask him if he likes you as more than a friend. i know that it is hard to do but if he does like you then you both can get on with getting to know each other better and if he doesn't like you then you can get over him and find someone better. good luck, honey!

Answer 6

just say you are in love with someone else. And watch him very closely. If he become slightly restless that means he loves you. If he takes it without any shock, then their is nothing like love

Answer 7

Why do you want to rush infatuation into love?
Love is built - on many things Respect - Trust etc...

Answer 8

wait on him, if he likes you he will probably make a move...maybe he did not wanted to french kiss, cause his friends know about his feelings?

Answer 9

My case, but a bit diff.
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Answer 10

just be direct and talk to him. People will answer questions when directly asked.