.......against me. we were close before, now we aint. he had a reputation for being unfaithful before he met her.if i play stupid or tow the line with him hes ok, but if i be myself ( and i can see through his falseness) my sister is a complete b*tch to me. any advice on what i can do??????
2006-06-06 22:27:46 · 8 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your sister is in a new relationship and has to find her place and you have to find yours. Try to spend time with her alone and don't mention your feelings about him. You don't want to cause a problem, be there for her. She will let you know why she is treating you differently, if she is being manipulated. Blood is stronger then anything else. Give her time.
2006-06-06 22:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by wakingupsunshine 1 · 9⤊ 2⤋
See, relationships do change a lot after one gets married.That's natural !! For your sis, her husband now, is more important.If you feel jealous or don't trust her husband , she would be nasty to you , in return.Once you get married yourself ,then you would understand better. Just try to accept him also as a part of your family , and don't expect the relationship to be the same as before
2006-06-07 05:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by shamur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are most probably right.... you would know, cause if there
is a sudden change in her behaviour, then it must be him!
That is a catch 22...you stand the chance to loose her, or win them both over... hope you get this sorted out, as family is the most important thing in life
2006-06-07 05:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yr query is a bit unclear to me, but the best advise I'd give U is:
stay faithful to yr sis, give her clear advise on what U think is going on, show her examples & then keep yr distance fm that man.....treat him normally nothing more nothing less....
what happnes next is up to yr sis
have a nice day
;-)
2006-06-07 05:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by TheOnlyFunkyDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her and give her space and be prepared to pick up the pieces and help her when the time comes.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-07 05:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them more time to live with each other in private. don't interfair in events of thair own, let them enjoy life. as long as you are concern , you should look forward and think for you own life partner.
2006-06-07 05:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by OrangeApple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you really need to talk to her (just her not her husband 2) set her down and tell her calmly how you feel, and maybe if their is a chance you guys could go hangout or spend time together..ya no...
2006-06-07 05:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by loser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget both of them
2006-06-07 05:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by franky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋