trust me toss that thought right out of your head now and wait a while you have a long time to make a big decision like that be patient its a big step
2006-06-06 22:02:19
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answered by james m 1
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In the UK it is 16 with parental consent. I would say that 16 is still too young, I got married at 19 and it was a disaster. Everyone warned me we were too young and I did not listen as I thought I was in love, the same way as you feel. If it is true love then I would advise waiting, love will last until you are older and a better age to marry. I don't mean to be horrible but having been there and done that, I would strongly advise you wait, it is not all hearts and flowers and rainbows and butterflies, a relationship takes hard work and commitment
2006-06-07 00:03:59
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answered by sparkleythings_4you 7
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I guess from this you feel you are mature enough to get married. But the fact you feel that at 15 means you are not as mature as you think you are.
If you were you would wait. Have you thought seriously about what is involved in a marriage? Waking up to the same guy for the rest of your life isnt something you can decide at your age and I mean that in the nicest way possible.
Have you thought about where you would live, what will happen if things do go wrong, who will be responsible for the food shopping, who will pay what bills. Who will make sure the laundry is done, how does he like his toast and coffee? Are you prepared to make it for him, not that its your duty but you will have to sometimes, its right to share things.
Have you thought about living together first?
Please I urge you to wait. I thought I knew it all when I was young but its only when you really do grow up you realise you dont. Its not easy sometimes and men really can test your patience, you can get really annoyed and realled pi**ed off at them, can you make it through an arguement? Have you been through a rough patch yet? Because if you ask me thats when you know you can make it. When you have been through the bad times aswell as the good and come out the other end loving each other as much if not more that you did before. Please mail me, Id like to talk to you and get to know a bit more about your personal situation.
I hope I havent said anything to upset you but Im hoping I have made you realise that people say you are too you to get married at 15 because its true.
2006-06-13 22:50:07
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answered by Anonymous
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If you both love each other, then wait it out. There is a lot of added responsibility that comes with marriage, not to mention that it is expensive. You two should enjoy being young, finish high school, go to college (together if you want to) and get an apartment. There is something to be said for going through the dating, sharing an apartment and starving because you are poor phase. It is always hard, but you will have many wonderful memories. Also, you want to save the marriage for when you are a little older, after you have perfected your signature and have been yourself not living at home for a while. You two love each other and are committed, there is no rush.
2006-06-07 06:00:19
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answered by nuschka16 1
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Legal ages vary so it depends what country you live in. Statistics show that people who marry in their teens are more likely to divorce. If you really love each other then what's the rush? If its to do with trust issues then you shouldn't get married anyway. I married my childhood sweetheart when I was twenty, we divorced 8 years later. I got married again when I was 30 and am very happy I wish I had waited till I was much older the first time.
2006-06-07 00:02:09
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answered by Amanda S 2
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With parental consent. But let me tell you something. Enjoy life before you settle down. 15 is a young age to be a mommy and a wife. I found it hard at 20 to be a mommy. 21 to be a good wife. You probably won't listen. But the best advice is to wait untill after high school. Their is nothing wrong with being engaged untill then. Besides gives you plunty of time to plan a great wedding.
2006-06-06 23:49:42
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answered by nay 5
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Love means different things to different people. I believe the term is tossed around in too many ways, to the point where it almost has no meaning anymore. I prefer to use "intimacy" or "attachment."
There are biological aspects of attraction and passion that are an important part of intimacy. These form very potent sources of fuel for a relationship, and I think they can be very important if they also include a certain amount of consistent communication and emotional process. Other important ingredients include mutuality in the relationship, respect for the person, and empathy for whom they are and what their needs are.
Simpler signs are merely that this is somebody with whom you feel comfortable and enjoy spending time. This should be somebody you look forward to sharing an important experience with, and without that person, that experience would not be as special. Finally, you should feel that your life is fundamentally enhanced by having this person with you and when this person is not with you, you lose something meaningful.
2006-06-06 22:03:55
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answered by Anonymous
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After reading your question I think the only answer can be this. You are too young to get married. go back to school, get an education & make something of yourself. Do not "settle" for this - you can be so much more.
Anyway, most places would not allow you to marry at 15. Statutory rape in some US states. Child abuse in UK.
Long prison sentence whichever way you look at it.
2006-06-08 10:51:50
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answered by monkeyface 7
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I know of some couples who got together and had kids at 16! but it never worked. Seriously, its just first love. I got married at 19 but thats still unnacceptable to some people. You can only get married at your age with parental permission. I'd wait til your at least 18. You will have been together longer and you will be an adult. Please just wait! you might end up ruining your life!
2006-06-07 05:12:01
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answered by wolfstorm 4
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u should wait..
chances r, if ur really so much in love, then u'll stay together forever and get married at a proper age
u dont wanna do something that u'll regret for the rest of ur life, which can and should be done later on.. so i'd say wait and u have nothing to lose.. besides, u dont wanna be a 19 year old single mother supporting her 4 year old son, do ya?! so be patient :)
2006-06-06 22:07:14
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answered by Stratomanssy 5
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Nope, need a parent's consent to get married at 15. Seriously though those type of marriages never last anyhow, wait until you're a legal adult at 18 and then decide if you want to get married
2006-06-06 22:03:36
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answered by moma 5
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