I am 30 my sister is 20, we love each other very much. For months ago I married and she doesn't accept my wife (for no objective reason). She sais she feel abandoned and she refuses to speak to me most of the times. This situation hurts everybody, me my wife my family and herself al well. What can I do to solve this? thanks
2006-06-06 21:56:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your sister needs a shrink...
She may be your sister but she acts like your girlfriend
2006-06-07 00:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, do not under any situation ignore your sister....Try to get her involved while u go out and make her feel a part of your family....And then try having a small talk with her and tell her that your wife is a woman that u love and respect, and you would expect your sister to do the same if not love her, atleast to show respect.....And reassure her that u will always love your sis and no one can ever take her place no matter what......
2006-06-07 05:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all sit down and talk it out together? Find a boyfriend for her so she can share in the fun? Suggest she go see a counselor. I undrstand her feelings which at least she is open about, but refusing to speak is childish behavior for a 20 year old.
2006-06-07 05:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by casey54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can think of to tell you is to let your sister work this out in her head and just let her alone while she does so.
Your sister sounds like she might be jealous, too, as well as feeling abandoned.
When your sister is talking to you, be receptive, but don't seek her out unless it is necessary.
In time, if your sister truly loves you, she will come around - and there is no telling how much time your sister will need, but just be patient.
Good Luck!
2006-06-07 05:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your wife have to ensure your sister that nothing has changed and she is being treated as before you got married. you can sometimes visit her by yourself and tell her that i have come just to see you! or organize a birthday party for her ! after a while when she feels that nothing has changed and your wife does not want to take her brother away she will go back to normal.
2006-06-07 05:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Maryam T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your sister needs counseling to find out why she would feel this way. She should be happy for you. Talk to her. Good luck.
2006-06-07 05:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make ur sis feel special n maybe do some things with her with just the 2 of u...and maybe this will ease some of the tension,also involve her more..she feelsleft out now and she feels u have replaced her!!!
2006-06-07 05:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by jsbrunette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU can`t SOLVE this. Your sister should have no bearing on your marriage. She has the problem and SHE must solve it..
2006-06-07 04:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, sounds like pure manipulation. Women are famous for it.
2006-06-07 04:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by James H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a husband for your sister
2006-06-07 04:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋