I've been avoiding someone because I don't think it's going to work for us. He won't stop texting and calling, but I just don't know what to say. I've got myself into a tricky situation (he's married) and I just want him to leave me alone. How do I tell him I don't want to see him any more?
2006-06-06 21:34:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if he's going to leave his wife within the next two weeks.
Don't accept his tired excuses. You're better than that, or better yet, don't give him the chance for an ultimatum. If he cheats on his wife, he will most likely cheat on you.
Realise that you deserve to be with a man who wants to be with you, not someone who's already tied up and just needs some action on the side.
Let him know that he isn't a man, he's got alot of growing up to do, you have a life to live, without a "speed bump" slowing you down at every opportunity that has and will come your way.
Don't waste your life on him.
This may cause emotional pain, but you are just the "other woman." Imagine how his wife and family would feel!
If he cared about anyone but himself, he wouldn't be living the way that he is.
There's plenty of fish in the sea, so go buy yourself a fishing pole.
If there are any kids involved, break it off immediately, no matter what.
2006-06-06 21:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
if he's married then does he deserve a gentle let down. He sounds rather predatory and is using your politeness to take advantage. A firm 'No' is the only way but don't be surprised if he keeps calling and texting and you have to change your number. Keep away from married men sweetheart, they will hurt you even if you don't fall in love with them. They don't really care as they are selfish and will manipulate you. You'll get so hurt you'll find it hard to trust or feel safe with a decent man. 'I don't want this anymore..goodbye' is all you need to say.
2006-06-06 22:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him! You have to tell him how you feel soon because you cant keep treating him like that. Phone and him and tell him to meet you somewhere so that you can talk and let him know how you're feeling. After that, you can avoid him as much as you want! Good luck.
2006-06-07 19:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will keep trying to get a hold of you until you tell him that you are not interested. Be honest, even if you find it hard by talking to him. Just send a text saying that you don't want to see him anymore! Simple. Sometimes we have to be hard love.
2006-06-06 21:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not say you feel guilty and you can't go on with it.. cuz he's married.. end. do it in a text if it's really that hard lol not the most noble, but , better than just ignoring it all, u cheat on the wife, u get whats coming anyway. dont feel bad.
2006-06-06 21:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him back telling him to stop pestering you.
If that doesn't work after you tell him you're not interested- change your phone number.
If he is married he should not be pestering another woman. You have to be firm with him he won't like it but will get the hint eventually.
2006-06-06 21:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of letting some one down gently... you just have to be honest.. and the longer you wait the harder it will be.. good luck :)
2006-06-06 22:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will show the texts to his wife
2006-06-06 21:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by loveable_aussie_rogue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHAME on you...he will get the hint..you need to stop dating married men...that can be very dangerous...tell him to go back with his wife...
2006-06-06 21:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you dont fill like in begining.say to him that he is a good gay but not the right one for him to have a life to gather
2006-06-06 21:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by eva.hit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋