On the first half of my four years in high school, I was considered one of the most prim and proper girls. They respected me for it. In addition, they looked up to me as I did well in my academics and extra-curricular activities too. On the latter half, I was kind of influenced by my bisexual friends. That includes, having a relationship with a college girl on the same campus as mine. Eventually, it came as a shock to most of my classmates. That time I didn't care what they think, but my reputation was inevitably scarred.
If you were one of my classmates, what would you have think or said?
2006-06-06 20:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by zira 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
My opinion would not have changed the least little bit about you. If we were friend before you came out, we would be friends after. If you are being treated differently by some people then the hell with them they were just hanger ons and not friends. You have nothing to be ashamed or judged about. You sound smart and good, so don't let anyone bother you.
2006-06-06 21:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its quite normal in a beast like society or Secular System... When our logic don't follow authentic yardsticks then it will happen anywhere anytime with any perversion and can be expected from anyone looking smart or respected whateva... Only Islam is the beautiful religion in which actual respect of relations is present. You have to hav face these type of probs anywhere in the world otherwise read about the religions to find out the truth -- and i assert with the whole sincerity that nothing is beautiful except the real teachings of Islam when acted upon wholeheartedly... May God bless your innocet feelings!
2006-06-06 20:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Solarapex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have rejoiced that you shook up people's narrow conceptions about something. I would have said, 'you go, girl!'. I would appreciate that you, inadvertently, showed them that not everything is as it seems.
2006-06-06 20:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would be shocked at first but I would not it effect me relationship with you.
2006-06-06 22:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Mac 4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your looks and whether you're bi. Otherwise i simply wouldn't care. People cannot be judged by their sexual orientation.
2006-06-06 20:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by caden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, shes a lesbian
2006-06-06 20:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I mean.....who knew?????"
2006-06-06 20:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by missinglincoln 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋