My ex and I broke up last month after finding out he had a baby by someone else. Yesterday I was checking my email and some gal emailed him and forwarded it to me and his mom. I ignored her but I emailed him telling him to tell his bitches not to send me anything and I also forwarded this to his mom. Now I am feeling really bad because I sent it to his mom as well. What do you think I should do?
2006-06-06 20:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by Lady Mandeville 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did good ...except I would email his mom and apologise to her its not her fault he is a twit
2006-06-06 20:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is the love? I don't know all the details about how you found out about the baby, and I think there is a lot more to know to decide. Still, I'll say this. If he wants to walk a better path than he has in the past, and came to you openly about his baby, and if he is trying really hard to not make any more mistakes, then he is worth the struggles and you should be forgiving, understanding, and supportive.
However, if he hasn't changed, or doesn't want to, if he just wants everyone to agree with him, and takes no responsibility for his bad actions, then don't get near him. Let him know how you feel, and then disappear.
You are a good person if you choose either of these paths. Good luck,
2006-06-07 03:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off all contact. If it was important enough to break up because he had this child, then burn your bridges so you can't turn around & go back. One thing I don't understand is did you find out he had a child from a previous relationship of which he was unaware, did he hide that he was a father from you, or did he cheat on you & knock some other girl up while you were together. If it was the first situation, you may owe him an apology, as he may not have known, & the kid may not even be his, & could even be a ploy by an ex to try to break you two up so she might be able to get back with him. If it was the other situations, I would say you made the right choice, & should keep running & not look back. Break off contact with him & his family completely. You'll be better off in the long run.
2006-06-07 03:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send another email apologizing.
2006-06-07 03:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Homesweethome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO IN UR SITUATION EMAIL THE MOTHER BACK AND TELL HER U R SORRY AND THAT U R CHANGING UR EMAIL.IM KINDOF IN THE SAME SITUATION LIKE BUT ONLY MY FIANCEE HAS NOT GOTTON HER PREGNANT SHE WANTS HIM BACK AND I TOLD HIM HER OR I AND HE CHOOSED ME.SO GIRL DO WHAT UR HEART TELLS U TO DO..........GOOD LUCK IM WITH YA ALL THE WAY.
2006-06-07 03:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once email sent!!! , you can think next time before sending email
2006-06-07 03:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by victoryismine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his mom will understand and probably already have different image of you even if you say you'r sorry. but, she'll understand.
2006-06-07 03:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by wongzx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your email
2006-06-07 03:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by RCPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologise to his mom
2006-06-07 03:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by n_banderas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont place any more questions here.
get a life.
2006-06-07 03:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by forrusse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋