actually,i'm not ugly and i am attractive but i always meet guys 10-and above my age who r interested in me.the guys i like like my friends or do not like me.cute nice guys never tend to see me.pple that approach me repluse me and r eithher disgusting desperate for sex or something or just want to use me.though sometimes relationshipscan be a waste of time i really one to experience a sucessful one.half of the time i meet the criteria but they never meet mine.i'm not looking for the one or someone perfect.im just want to feel comfortable with someone.i feel i am missing something or im covered in badluck.what is the problem with me?
2006-06-06 20:22:24 · 32 answers · asked by lady c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-20 12:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by seferitanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i have the same problem but i dont think theres anything wrong with me and there isnt anything wrong with you, you just need to give the guys that you date a chance and the ones that dont fancy you dont worry about. Remember that you are precious and that you deserve the best,so ifa guy comes along and you feel comfortable with him dont just kick him to the kerb because he doesn't fit in with what you want, everyone deserves a chance but you need more than one or two dates for that. Be honest, tell them that if they are there for sex they've had a wasted journey. good luck. x
2006-06-15 07:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not approachable..The guys that like your friends probably think you are stuck up, and have a bad attitude.
No matter how good anyone looks, if you aren't approachable have nasty attitude they won't bother. Perhaps the guys that do approach you that are 10 years older, approach you because you look their age. Check yourself..However, there's nothing wrong with having standards. Why lower yours?
2006-06-20 11:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are in a rut and keep picking subconciously the same type of blokes.
There is somebody for everyone out there and you will find them. Be patient the best things are worth waiting for!
And you need to stop thinking that the problem is yours, maybe the problem is that you have no self confidence!!
Take care and remember you are worth someones attention and you will find someone.
2006-06-18 22:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by selina19762003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress about it. The right one will come at the right time and when it happens...you wont believe it. There is a reason why that hasn't happened yet. Focus on you hobbies and other things that excite you. I am 27 and haven't met one yet but in the mean time I am enjoying my , spending time on (positive)things that excite me.At least you have friends.
2006-06-17 05:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by moneiqs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you're the problem with you- your attitude stinks if you think that just cos someone's older then you they're 'disgusting', and if you were as 'attractive' as you say then by definition you'd be attracting guys, wouldnt ya?
Maybe if ya try getting yerself some compassion to chew on it might bring u what you need.
2006-06-14 05:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your prince charming is just around the corner waiting for you or let just say you need to move and feel around he might be just in front of you and you still havent notice him yet.. there is not such thing as badluck in a relationship... the very enssence of a relationship is friendship which must never be forgotten even in getting married you must never never forget that friendship will bind your relationship stronger...
2006-06-20 17:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by rudolph d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are missing anything or you have bad luck, stop trying and keep yourself occupied with other things that make you happy!
check your standards and cut out any ridiculous standards that you have set for a potential partner!! it might do the trick....
2006-06-15 02:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by cassandra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your self esteem. Love you better than anyone else can and then try the dating thing. Men love confident women be Confident in yourself. Dress to impress and you will see the difference it makes.
2006-06-20 13:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by biggtray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not badluck. I have a friend that everytime she finds a great guy. But she is a flirt so even the nice guys seem to like her.
2006-06-17 14:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you!!! Of course not! You are beautiful in your own special way. And as we all know, there is someone out there waiting to experience you. Never forget that!
2006-06-20 07:29:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋