as in real fallin in love
2006-06-06 20:16:42 · 17 answers · asked by liakin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Falling in love is never safe. Thats the beauty of it. If they love you back is whats important.
When you are in highschool love is so real. In the real world things are not that simple. As you get older the meaning of love changes.
Some get lucky and find their soulmate. Thats some one who excepts you for who you are. Someone who doesnt hold you back and most importantly someone who respects and doesnt expect something in return that they know you cant give.
Good luck!
2006-06-06 20:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by kellbell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I guess it is bad to fall in love deeply if you are serious about it- if you are not then it is ok. To take anything seriously has fatal consequences.You love better if you are not serious about loving deeply. People will always disappoint you and the people you love will disappoint most and often..so if you do not love them seriously, although with all your heart, you survive these disappointments. How do you do it, hate them if you must, and then when you are done hating- love and trust them again. But you have to decide to be done hating them..cos sometimes this is the hardest thing to do.
2006-06-07 03:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by austria_honeybunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never safe but well worth it! I am a divorced man and I fell very deeply in love with my wife and don't regret it. Love hurts, but it also is the most rewarding feeling there is.
2006-06-07 03:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by yknot92688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually.....no . if u fall deeply in love with a person, the next day the person would be flirting with someone else and you would winde up getting hurt. But it is good to express yourself in words........... say,scream and shout those words...... share your feelings with the person you love, and only love a person, that loves u.
2006-06-07 03:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not. Love is a business transaction. for example:
I am an ugly but rich fellow and I like pretty skinny gals that like to bang me. Unfortunatly we live in the real world and pretty skinny girls are nerver going to bang me. Thus a business relationship is formed... if i agree to treat the pretty skinng girls well (take them out to nice resturants and listen to their boring crap and buy them shiny things) then tey wil agree to bang me. So its not really love its just two people getting what they want.
This brings me to my point. If i was to fall in love with a pretty skinny girl and suddnly im broke then I get heartbroken. and vice versa if pretty skinng girl turns fat and ugly then she gets heart broken.
Its is there fore best to keep things professional.
2006-06-07 03:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Moloth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, and it's the best thing I've ever done. I love my hubby with all my heart, he is my world; he and the family we've made is my life. So I say, yes, it is; adn it's a shame if you hold back and don't let yourself feel the miracle that true love feels.
2006-06-07 03:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why else would we bother to fall in love if it wasn't deeply?
Dive right in girl
2006-06-07 03:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. You can be hurt in love. And you can be hurt not falling in love. Depends... who are you falling in love with? there's more behind a question then just one word answers.
2006-06-07 03:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as that other person your in love with Is in Love with you...sure it is safe...
2006-06-07 03:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really safe. It can be costly also. But hey, everything has its own price. If you really want it pay it! Thats it and thats all.
2006-06-07 03:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by man_1433 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋