I am Gay, do you have a problem?

Question

People should mind their own business and if you think it is your business then tell me and if you support me or are feeling the same against people who think they have to ruin other peoples lives just because of "God" well tell me what is wrong with it?

Answer 1

Someone already asked that question in the last 5 minutes.

Answer 2

I want to answer this question because I am a "believer" of Jesus Christ - a christian and I think we get such a bad rap in the world because of some idiot "christians" and their attitudes toward people who are gay. You should know that there are some people out here that are real christians that understand what Gods Word says about homosexuality but don't condemn the person practicing that lifestyle. God tells us in His Word that we are to love everyone as He does. He mention six sins that he hates in Psalms and the top of the list is pride. Being gay is not even on the list. So all that to say this... although I may not agree with your lifestyle, I don't condemn you. If we met and had compatible interests and personalities, I could easily be your friend as I have been with others who were gay. I don't think I would try to talk you out of it unless you wanted me to. Had one friend like that... but generally I don't pay attention to whether someone is gay, straight, sleeping around, black, white, asian, etc.

Answer 3

yeah, i don't really get this obsession with speaking out against gays. i guess people just feel that they know the truth and therefore they have the right to tell fellow human beings that they are disgusting and going to hell. but really, people seem to be more vocal about homosexuality then about other "sins" i can only assume that this is because they are scared of gays for some reason. this is where the "family values" excuse comes from. people seem to think that gays are coming after their kids and are going to turn them gay. this is only because this is how they think. gay people are not trying to convert people, that is the Christian's gig. personally, i don't really care if you are gay. i don't know you, your choice does not affect me directly. if you were my friend i would care and i would support you, but that is another story.

wow, i just read the person above me's statement, and i am surprised at how well it proves what i am saying. i just got over my childhood, and i got to say, it was in no way ruined by gays. just whenever people really don't like something, they say "oh the children! the children!" stop using kids as pawns in your insecurities! and as far as god made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve, didn't god make everything? so he made gays to and he made them for a reason. and if the devil made gays, the only possible reason i can see for him doing this is to make other people hate. so it is you how are playing into the devil's hand.

Answer 4

Ok, well I totally agree with you, and I am a heterosexual. I am also religious, but I don't agree with everything about my religion, like how marriage has to be between a man and a woman, but i think that is stupid. People should be able to love whoever they want. Call me a hippy or w.e, but I think that being gay makes as much sense as not being gay, because on both sides you just love who you do. You can't help it. And ruining peoples' lives over sexual preference is pointless!!! And I sincerely hope that this has not happened to you, because ruining someone's life is bad enough, but over something as pointless as this is pathetic. And I say it's pointless because no one should be making a big deal out of it. I think the people who have a problem with it are people stuck in the past and aren't willing to accept change. I hope that you have good luck with it, and anyone saying that god told them that gays are bad or w.e. is anti-religious, because the real god would never do that to a person. But good luck, and hope you have a good life =)

Answer 5

You have good spirit and I am glad you are feeling free to talk about your love life but be careful you do not take in the bad charma from the people who judge you becasue there are more people who love you as you are inside and want you to feel freedom and self expression. i am not gay but I do not care who people love or sleep with. It is the haters who have the problem and it is only your choice to live your life because we all get only our own.
God is not talking through people who show anger and he loves us. Grace covers the sin of those who judge you if they do it because they feel God wants it, but God also loves us for being the person he created us to be. He would not make you gay if you were not meant to be that way, just like he made me female. I have seen many babies with some mixed physical sexuality. the doctors used to let the parents descide and then cut them up before they were old enough to understand or choose. sometimes they chose wrong. this is mutilation and wrong. they play God and they are only doctors...King James hacked up the bible and there is confusion in many people now. there are lost books and you need the spirit in you to lead you. There are many churches who feel women are limited but God sent women to lead even in the year of 300AD. then they say no instruments in the church..and yet you can read Psalms...everyone thinks their little mind is right and they want to be right so badly because they are afraid of what waits after death......I have been a nurse many years and there is something very beautiful and accepting and loving after death and you will see it. keep your heart pure and you will see........I love you.

Answer 6

Facts: 1. Gay men live approx 20 years shorter than straight men. 2. The portion of the body used for male sex is damaged by the activity, which leads to increased susceptibility to HIV. 3. The number of gay folk with sexual abuse in childhood is much higher than average.

I don't believe a healthy child grows up to be gay. I think there were shortfalls in parenting (the evil dad syndrome--who would WANT to be like him?), instances of abuse, or inability to adjust socially that makes people more susceptible to being attracted to their own sex.

I don't believe in any kind of promiscuity, gay or otherwise. I think the personal costs are too high--the feeling used, the loss of self respect, the damage to the kids in the next room.

I think sex has taken on too big a role in our society. Because, fun as it is, it is no substitute for meeting the deeper need we have for closeness and acceptance. True intimacy.

Make great friends. Be a great friend. Keep your pants on.

Answer 7

Yes, I have a problem! First is your statement! "I am Gay" I don't run around saying: "I'm Straight" I don't care if you are Gay! I do care about you shoving it my face all the time. So to speak, And I care about what you are doing to the kids in America, You are ruining there lives. You are sick and twisted, Slot A, goes into slot B!! Men and women are meant to be together, God created Adam and Eve, Not Adam and Steve!!!!

Answer 8

If you are gay or not is your own business...your sexual preference doesn't and shouldn't concern anyone else, besides your own partner. God put all of us on this Earth for a reason, and someone who is gay is no exception. No exception, no preference, no difference from anyone else - gay or straight. No difference means no special treatment, right and okay?

Answer 9

If you want me to mind my own business then don't make an issue out of being gay.

Answer 10

It's great being gay isn't it, I get so bored of dull Cassandra-type Christians moaning on about how dangerous and sinful it is and lakes of fire...actually it is pretty mundane most of the time being gay and the sinful bits are just the cherry on the cake, the spice in the cookie.

Answer 11

Being gay is ok dude

Everyones answers are so nice tonight, what the hell is wrong? lol

Health nut, you don't have to say "I'm straight do you have a problem?" What YOU ARE isnt frowned upon IN THE BIBLE, YOU can marry, GAY PEOPLE cant. ya know? I would hope you wouldnt say "got a problem?"

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