ok, my gf broke up with me about a month and a half ago b/c she said she needs time to figure out her life and get over her ex (who she still is in love w/). I love her more than life itself, and all I want is her love and to be w/ her. I have done everything I could, and the separation is being detrimental to my health, I haven't eaten an real meal in 2 weeks, I maybe get 3 hrs of sleep a night and all my dreams are nightmares about losing her, I wake up every morning in a shake and I can't function for a while and I wake up crying every morning. Somebody please help me, I can't do it on my own anymore!
2006-06-06
19:11:34
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cnurhino76
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IT'S TIME TO LET GO !!!!! IT'S BEEN A MONTH AND A HALF. SHE SAID SHE NEEDS TIME TO FIGURE OUT HER LIFE AND GET OVER HER EX. YOU TAKE THIS TIME TO DO THE SAME.............FIGURE OUT YOUR LIFE AND GET OVER YOUR EX. AT THE RATE YOU'RE GOING...YOU'RE MAKING YOURSELF PHYSICALLY SICK. NO ONE IS WORTH THAT.
I HAVE A SUGGESTION: PRAY AND ASK GOD TO HELP YOU THROUGH THIS. TO FILL THE VOID YOU FEEL. TO REMOVE THE PAIN OR HELP YOU TO DEAL WITH IT.
AND TO GUIDE YOU ON THE RIGHT PATH TO HEALING.
ALSO: LIGHT A CANDLE.....WHILE THE CANDLE BURNS....TALK TO IT ..JUST LIKE IT WAS YOUR GIRLFRIEND....I WANT YOU TO VENT......VERBALIZE EVERYTHING YOU FEEL. THE PAIN, THE CONFUSION, THE ANGER....YELL...CRY....WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET IT .....ALL..... AND I MEAN .....ALL......OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM. THIS CANDLE SYMBOLIZES THE GIRL....TELL HER EVERYTHING YOU FEEL...GOOD AND BAD.
CONTINUE THIS UNTIL THE CANDLE BURNS OUT.......AT THIS TIME....THE CANDLE IS GONE......THE GIRL IS GONE....
VENTING IS DONE.....LET IT GOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
ONE OTHER THING....WHEN YOU LAY DOWN TO SLEEP...PRAY FIRST...ASK THE LORD FOR A RESTFUL, PEACEFUL SLEEP.
NOW.........GO EAT SOMETHING....GET YOUR STRENGTH UP AND BURN THAT CANDLE!!!!!
2006-06-06 19:32:08
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answered by LindaInNC 4
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A broken heart is never fun...been there and done that. If it's meant to be, she'll come back, just let her have her space, but if it's not meant to be, then that just means there is someone better for you. Make it a point to go out with your friends or family. Do things you enjoy, stay active. Don't sit and dwell on it though, it will only make it worse, you need to go on with your life, because even though it may seem like it, life still goes on even when we lose someone we love deeply. Keep telling yourself, "I'm alright, life goes on!" And try talking to friends or family members about it, and if that doesn't work, write down your thoughts and feelings. And out n' out crying never hurts. Just lock yourself up in your room for a while, turn on some music, and bawl your eyes out, it'll help release the pain you're going through.
I hope things get better, and God bless!
2006-06-07 02:32:44
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answered by joyfulspirit_2002 2
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It doesn't seem like it now but with time you will forget her and move on. Try going out with the guys in hopes of meeting someone new. You can't move on if you're still stuck at home, not wanting to do anything but think about her, that's not going to help. Go out and do things to think less about her. And give someone else a chance to enter your heart.
2006-06-07 02:31:23
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answered by Still Halloween 6
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the best thing to do is love yourself first, take care of yourself. you can't force someone to love you if they really don't feel like it especially if they still love someone else..give her sometime if she really has feelings for you she'll come back. in the meantime try to go out and have some fun
2006-06-07 02:36:22
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answered by honeylick 1
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Take a Bex powder and lay down for a while luv.
2006-06-07 02:15:55
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answered by Curious 3
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It will pass!! For the meantime, do something enjoyable like buy anything u want etc. pigout on a resto. go clubbin, etc!
2006-06-07 02:15:11
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answered by miss*miss 2
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POOR U.But Neway U should try to talk to her again and tell her what U have done to yourself and tell her about how important she is for U.
2006-06-07 02:26:46
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answered by bsriharsha123456789 1
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Grow up and be a man
2006-06-07 02:15:57
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answered by s7 2
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what can i say if u want to hurt urself. well just tell her what u think and know what she want.
2006-06-07 02:29:23
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answered by Jackalene 1
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sorry, but, ur a whoos... get over it!! she still likes the other guy...
2006-06-07 02:14:50
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answered by that guy 1
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