Ok,I have been single from a year long relatiobnship for almost a month.After being bitter and trying to convince my ex that a break up was wrong I settled down and tried to move on.I went out with a new girl and had a really good time, we're planning on going out again.Now my ex is saying that she misses me a lot and the thought of losing me to someone else is too much for her. I still love her but I feel like I owe it to myself to see what else is out there, especially after having so much fun with someone else. I don't know what to do.My ex and I go to college together so its kind of work to see eachother during summer anyways. I tried to tell her early this might happen, its like she doesnt think decisions through.I know I hardly know this new girl but I can't believe how good our date went.Right now my ex wants me to call her and talk her to sleep, if it was earlier she was gonn ask for a sleepover and tomorrow I had plans with the new girl. Anyway to keep both doors open till its
2006-06-06 18:44:58 · 4 answers · asked by Matt J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
clearer? I know I'm still young but I don't want to go into any relationship that doesnt have a future. I feel hopeless, I'll feel bad just going back to my ex cause I didnt give this new girl a shot, and I'll feel bad going with her cause it could end up bad anyways and me and my ex had a really awesome relationship till about a month ago when she had all these doubts
2006-06-06 18:46:33 · update #1
You tried to explain this to your ex before but she wasn't hearing you now you found someone new and now she want to get back together. Too late! This new girl might be what you're looking for youe ex is an ex for a reason, stay friends with her and have fun with your new love good luck!
2006-06-06 19:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever said"I Love You" to your ex. Sounds like you have and now shes droping you and picking you up at any time she feels like. Date the new girl for at least a week (teaching your ex to never leave you again.) and then if you want run back to your ex and mabye next time your relationship will be a whole lot better.
2006-06-06 18:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by b-buddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW dude you are in some **** there...... I think you should give this new girl a go...tell your ex you just want to stay friends, and that you want to move on!!
You sound like a nice guy.....so I'm sure you'll make the right decision anyway!!
Best of luck mate!
2006-06-06 18:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by jaye21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date them both. Why must you make a choice?
2006-06-06 18:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋