my boyfriend of 3 months is out with his best friend who happens to be a female...............?

Question

Is it wrong to be jelouse, we live about 45 min. away from each other they live even farther apart, am I out of line to feel this way, also they use to date for awhile, he says I have no reason to worrie, but I just cant seem to stop feeling this way.. am I over reacting?

Thanks guys, I need the hope most of You gave me, I have a lot of trust issues, my ex-husband left me in Jan. for a 17 year old, trust is so hard for me now, and for the one who said he is being more than friends, you sound like my mom,and maybe You and her are right,but if I don't give him the benefit of the doubt, I could ruin the most important relationship of my life. I can only pray that everyone elese is right, and that I am just over reacting. Thank You All!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Yes. Relax.

Answer 2

The feelings are completely normal ... the deal is you have to decide to trust and believe in him if and until he gives you a reason not too. Why? Becasue, otherwise there isn't a chance. It is very possible that he is being 100% truthful, so you must give him the benefit of the doubt.But pay attention, take care of yourself...and if your instincts tell you it's not right, move on.

Answer 3

I think the same thing, but I'm 15 hours away from my boyfriend, and he's hanging out with his ex girlfriend. It's okay to be jealous..I am of her, but I know I've got my man wrapped around my finger too well for him to stray.

Answer 4

my best friend is a guy. if they are really freinds then they would think of eachother as like a brother or sister or something. Just chill, sit back, pop popcorn and pop in a movie

Answer 5

You are overreacting...chill out! You should trust your boyfriend.

Answer 6

nope. he is pounding away on her every chance he gets. one day he is going to say her name in bed with you.