I live alone, now I am afraid
2006-06-06 17:58:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u must b hott to think this way.... but let me tell u some good news "You are still alive and kicking "...n i think tatz a good sign tat a beautiful person like u dint encounter any creeps till date...but still u cant b too careful, do heed to the advice of the others who answered before me but i think u shudnt get too paranoid (some paranoia is ok) .... Live life and enjoy.
2006-06-06 20:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by pembanboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get really good lights all around the outside, sensor lights. Make sure you trim the bushes and foilage around all windows and doors. Get a good alarm system. Always lock your doors and windows. Have your keys and a can of mace in your hand when you leave your car to go inside at night. When servicemen or whoever come to the door, always ask to see their ID. Trust no one, always be suspicious, and don't tell strangers like men on a dating service where you live or if you live alone. Have a friend park their car in your driveway and let these guys think it's your boyfriends or ex'es car. Don't ever hesitate to call 911 to have police check out your house.
I had an exboyfriend that started creeping into my house and laying out his favorite outfit of mine, even including the jewelry that matched, when I would be at work! Talk about creepy! With a good alarm system, install motion detectors. They light up enough to scare away the wierdo that comes around.
From now on be careful! Don't give out so much info! Be safe!
You need to fix everything to feel safe, because it is not right to be afraid at your own home! That makes it not a homey home. Get all the appropriate protection that I mentioned, and then always play it safe. You deserve to feel completely safe where you live.
2006-06-07 01:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all , Did you tell them where you live at ? if so that was a big mistake. But now you have to deal with it. What you need to do is tell them you got yourself a room mate or something to that fact. One night when you know they will be calling you have a friend there and have them answer the phone or if they come by try and make sure it looks like someone else is living with you. Then let this be a lesson well learned. Dont ever tell someone you dont know that you live by yourself.
2006-06-07 01:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by myblueyesr2qt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no need of afraid of being alone, simple tell them you still alone, that's why you want to find Somebody to accompany with.
And show more confidence on the dating.
2006-06-07 01:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where was your head girl? I hope you don't have your address or full name etc. anywhere on the computer.No more dating sites!
2006-06-07 01:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Now I know too. lol.JK. Get a temperary boy friend so he'll be your body gaurd and you will get to save some money.
2006-06-07 01:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by b-buddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then that's you fault why the hell would you tell them you live alone ..do they know where you live if so your screwed maybe now your will learn not to do that.
2006-06-07 01:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a security system immediately!
2006-06-07 01:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Gabrielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah never tell anybody that again that's just not safe next time say you have 3 pitt bulls that are man eater's.
2006-06-07 01:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too bad girl, you shouldnt have given out too much information about yourself to strangers, theres no way to change what youve done, all you can do is learn from it.
2006-06-07 01:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by kyo10vr_mn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋