tell men that want to date me what I do am I over reacting?
2006-06-06 17:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've held down the same job for SEVEN YEARS and you are embarrassed?????
Honey ALL men are looking for a housekeeper! At least they NEED one! LOL!
2006-06-06 18:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by beckini 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think men are less concerned about what a girl does for a living and more that she actually does something besides looking to freeload off a live-in bf. BE glad that you have a steady job, I have been cleaning houses on the side for a long time and I think I will probably always do it. I get such creative decorating ideas, get new scenery every day and meet some cool people. Plus u can work the fetish angle: tell him if he is a good boy you'll put on your maid uniform. :)
2006-06-07 01:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie Baby 82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be embarassed. There is nothing wrong with doing a good job and working hard. If you take pride in your work and do a good job, that's something to be proud of, not ashamed of. If men who want to date you don't want to date you after they find out, well, that's their loss.
If you are interested in doing something other than housekeeping, do it! If not, keep being a housekeeper. There is absolutely nothing wrong with people who will work to provide for themselves and their families.
2006-06-07 00:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey please at least you have a job. If the men you are dating have a problem with your occupation maybe your dating the wrong ones. Tell me has anyone told you to qiut your job because they are going to provide for your every want and need?........And when u find him ask him does he have a cousin or brother that feels the same...Lord knows i could use the money
2006-06-07 01:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarassed. You earn an honest wage for honest work and I am sure they are thrilled that you can hook them up with the little mints and all of the travel size soaps they want! Seriously, would you really want to be in a relationship with someone that didn't like you simply because of what you do?
2006-06-07 00:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by The Nag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it shouldn't. You need to tell the truth about your occupation. As long as it pays the bills and puts food on the table, there ain't nothing wrong with it. I told women I was a truck cleaner. Some women were fine with it; some were not. If someone can't accept what you do, the hell with them....
2006-06-07 00:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Captain X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you are since I worked with my father as a janitor for 6 years. I don't think honest work is anything to be ashamed of no matter what it is. If a man won't date you just because you clean houses then he doesn't deserve you to begin with.
Come to think of it I'm still a janitor. I just clean up after horses instead of people.
2006-06-07 00:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by lucygoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are quality men, your job will make no difference, besides there isn't a way to build a healthy honest relationship if you start it out with avoidance and lies.
Be proud of what you do and who you are, real men will be happy with you.
2006-06-07 00:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over reacting.....What are you going to do lie? I wouldnt care if my girlfriend was a sheep herder. Im not with her for what she does for a living. Sounds like you might be the one with some insucurities though.
2006-06-07 00:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by VDubJason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
housekeeper huh? sounds good to me, i think you are overreacting. that is a great plus in my book any woman that can keep up with other peoples houses for a living is a good hardworking lady
2006-06-07 00:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by cwfraggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋