My girlfriend had sex with another guy while we were broken up for two weeks. We went out for 6 months, we had a big fight and broke up for 2 weeks. we did not talk for those two weeks. now we are back together. she told me that she was so sad and lonely in those two weeks and got cought up in the moment with another guy and had sex wtih him. she didnt want to hid it from me so she told me. I did not do anything with another girl in those two weeks.. Is that ok for her to do that because we werent going out? what should I do? should I just forget about the incident and keep a relationship?
2006-06-06 17:36:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She told you. Just remember what might happen if you ever break up again. She can do whatever she wants to do if you hadn't establish guidelines during the breakup period. GO TO THE CLINIC!
2006-06-06 17:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by IdesOfMarch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you an try but if she continues to see the other guy or call him or stay in contact with him then call it quits make sure that ends before you continue anything with her same type of situation happened to me if you think that she isnt worth your love leave her alone because that shows how much she think of your relationship 2 weeks and she already comfortable enough to sleep with another man. that means she was probaly already talking to this guy come on two weeks later she is with another guy I say you leave her and find a girl that will drive her insane with jealously dont show your feelings to her just act nonchalant that way you keep the upper hand. I feel you man just find someone better she aint worth a guy like you.
Justin
2006-06-07 00:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up...which means you weren't together...which means she was free to do what she wanted. If you were still together it would have been a different story. But girls do stupid things when they are sad, depressed and lonely. She probably wishes she didn't do it and it took a lot of guts for her to tell you about that. Give the girl some credit, be happy your back together, and move on!!!
2006-06-07 00:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by halainn317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were broke and that stuff happens. It hurts but you will have to forget about it or move on. If you bring it up every time you get in a spat you will never make it work. It does seem soom to be jumping into bed with someone else (2 weeks my gosh) She may be a hoe and you might think about finding better but like I say at first forget about it or it will never work.
2006-06-07 00:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok because she told you about it and you two were broken up at the time. SHe thought you were over for good. You need to get over it. ASk if she used a condom. If she didnt she needs to get tested for STDs now until 6 months from the date of sex because she could have an std.
2006-06-07 00:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Educated 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke up in the first place. Many girls seek the feeling full feeling when it comes to lonliness. Take it from someone who made the same mistake she did about 10 minutes ago. Forgive her, and make sure that she doesn't feel lonely.
2006-06-07 00:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you were broken up, this questions seems more like disappointment because you didn't get laid but she did. Maybe next time if you break up you'll get some next time. Basically, she didn't do anything wrong. If like her never bring up to her again. Reason if you do she'll lay some more pipe without you.
2006-06-07 00:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tanker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were not together so she could do whatever she wanted jackass...."I was so sad and lonely i just had to have sex" LOL... brings a tear to my eye. yeah. im pretty sure sad and lonely people wouldn't mind having a talk with someone either.
2006-06-07 00:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Slappywag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw her bro its not like it was o long time it was two weeks that girl is a horn dog and needs to be single till she settles down.two weeks bro think about it its not right
2006-06-07 00:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by texas boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't together so it wasn't wrong on her part.I guess she didn't have to tell you but she did anyways. That tells me she is honest and you should try to forget and give it a chance.
2006-06-07 00:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋