I tell all my friends that I love them. Some of which are guys and 1 of which is his brother. I think its rediculous but he says i just dont see it from his point of view. I know that if he told his best friends (who are females) or even my best friend (which he is friends with) I wouldnt get mad. I have really put myself in his place but he says i havent? Is he overreacting or am i being a major ***** to him about this?
2006-06-06 17:28:53 · 26 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Words with friends can change a life. It's better to love. Tell him you mean spiritual love. The type of love that means, "I care about you."
That's so cool of you. So many people are wrapped up on their own ego they can't open up their radar to the world. The world needs more caring and sharing, Be yourself and don't let guys control who you are and who you are becoming.
I see how it's hard for you to put yourself in his selfish shoes.
Women are naturally gregarious. This is a mismatch. He's controlling and you are a free spirit. It will be a rocky road keeping a committed relationship with a guy who is insecure, jealous and emotionally explosive.
If a guy really loves you, he will love you for who you are, not who he wants you to be.
2006-06-06 17:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I tell ALL my friends which just so happens to be mostly guys, that i love them. (Of course they all know i love them as just really good friends, if not i'd be with them right?) Tell ya bf that. And i think he just gets a little jealous. Remind him that u are with him and theres no reason to be jealous cause not only do u love him, u r possibly in love with him or at least love him in sensual ways that u definitely do not ove your friends right? Tell him hat too if u havent already ok hun....
oya...and say "u look so kute when u are mad and kiss his nose. Thats what i do to my bf when he has that pissy-mad look. Then we both laugh even tho i know he doesnt want to. LOL
2006-06-06 17:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, yet you want a actuality examine. i'd in no way ever stay with somebody who replaced into jealous or maybe worse accused me of having intercourse for merely wearing a bikini or going to a pool. Sounds to me like he has low self stem, communicate over with him and set some rules. have confidence me, i've got been there in the previous.
2016-11-14 07:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long you two been together, but if you're been together for some time now, he should know you better to know what do you mean when you tell your friends that you love them.
But guys are insecure, so if you really love him, it wouldn't hurt you to keep it to yourself, and say the "love" word just to him to make him feel especial, unique and only yours.
2006-06-06 17:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend,do he really?First of all,listen and listen carefully,love is expressed from within and regards to whom you tell it too or shout it out loud too,how you feel for another,check it out you feel bout now, who cares of knowing,etc.then your male friend gots a prob with,honey!i,m gonna tell ya like this,his point of view?either he do or don,t?love you!?then he say that you don,t see it his point of view?true you won,t get mad,this dude,don,t care about you ,like you do him?it isn,t a point of view,when it comes to expressing for the one you love,or being in love with?he is simply saying to you ,hey!don,t tell all the world that you and i are together!let it not be known,to everybody,leave me a few options,no you aren,t being such,if anything you would wanna step up a knotch or two on your game?and you say this guy is your boyfriend!if you are his girl then why?is he trippin!one reason,Conveniance!(you)
2006-06-06 17:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by sheena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a difference between love ya and "I LOVE YOU", I think you should simply respect the fact that he feels that this phrase should only be shared between you two. Most girls complain about their bf not saying the phrase or not meaning it so I think your lucky that he finds it to be so special. Sometimes it is worth it to please your significant other most of all in something so small. Good luck, : )
2006-06-06 17:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up, and stop being such a control freak. Tell him you're a human being and have every right to do whatever you want without him controlling you like a puppet.
2006-06-06 17:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Psychology 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to grow up and get over it--he has no idea what the meaning of true love is--true love is not sexual at all--it is an unconditional love for another human being--do not compromise yourself or change the way you are just because of his insecurities--stand up for what you believe in and above all love and respect yourself!
2006-06-06 17:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by wants to work at home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umph cant fix stupid maybe he isnt use to love fro his family and u prob can help him through it but if u guys are real young let it go he need to mature more to understand andthink about it do you really love him u this maybe opening your eyes to something and he dont want to hurt your feelings when he gets ready to dump you
2006-06-06 17:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by jcleann13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no//we don't explain what we mean.as woman point you don't need three party.such as his friend and your friend.talk to him not someone else.you need tell him how you feel.not someone else.which person you love.that who you tell.your friend is not being ridiculous.he trying to tell you in some way how he feel.stand back and take a look at it.
2006-06-06 17:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋