Do you think a handsome,Christian, Bi-M like me will find BOTH another Bi-M to espouse AND Bi-FM to wed?

Question

I would like to find a "both" Bi-Man "and" Bi-Woman to settle down with and form a "real family" that I never had before in my life.

I am a Christian Bi-loving Man and would like to do this while I am still kinda young. Is this possible in this "mono-sexual", "anti-Christian world"? I find that I am a man FAR beyond my time. In this world "LOVE" is "exclusive" possesion. Either that, or people are NOT into "intimacy" and have multple partners of "either gender"--not for me, compromises intimacy.

With another man I could have one form of "special" intimacy and with a special Lady a different kind altogether.

Caution: I DO NOT mean multiple partners of the opposite gender OR same gender(ie. polygany nor polyandry)--ONE OF EACH ONLY. So my question is, Do others have that same need?

How do we make these families happen? Think of the possibilites?

Eventhough I will get negative feedback from the mono-sexuals & poly-sexuals, I prefer Bi-sexuals ONLY to weigh in on this one.

to legogate:

I have more than a "real" life, I have THE Life--The LORD Yeshuah Messiah. I suggest you cry out to HIM for mercy and maybe he will save you too! Without salvation you "cannot understand" GOD's will for sexuality at all:--)

Scripture for the day:

[Psalms 55:1-3] Give ear to my prayer, O God; and hide not thyself from my supplication. Attend unto me, and hear me: I mourn in my complaint, and make a noise; Because of the voice of the enemy, because of the "oppression of the wicked": for "they cast iniquity upon me", and "in wrath" they "hate me".

Truly I tell you, In your eyes, on this web site, in these yahoo answers I receive-- "is this sripture again fulfilled"

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I will clump the rest of ALL who are "concerned?" about my Christian name or identity, I have written answers to your questions (always the same questions) under this question in other links--My Question is under 3 sites at yahoo answers:

Home > Society & Culture > Cultures & Groups > Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered
Home > Family & Relationships > Family

Home > Society & Culture > Religion & Spirituality [especially read this one]

Go to all three, READ CAREFULLY and see what I have written to other’s Reponses, THEN visit these sites:

http://www.apa.org/topics/orientation.ht...
http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_bi...
http://www.whosoever.org/bible/......
http://www.truthsetsfree.net/study.html....
http://www.bidstrup.com/sodomy.htm......

These cover EVERY BIBLE VERSE to homosexuality and the old Adam&Eve chant TOO [LOL]....you people really need the "undestanding" that can "only" come with the "born from above" experience

Thanks to "loon_mallet" for letting me know that the links are broken. I tried them and descovered that with "a little" effort you can still get to the information.

I think the links did not copy "complete" to the post, as they are cut off. I have posted them again but I can assure you that MOST if not ALL of you who are answering here DO NOT want to read what is "all over" the net. Because your "arrogance won't allow it. A true Christian is willing to explore the Bible "in depth" and NOT just lean to thier "own" understanding. No matter what he is "certain" he knows, he or she will "still" explore further as the Bible is the "deepest" Book above books.

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But the children of the Pharisee’s (the devout on "tradition"), "Law"yers (all of you who push the Law of Moses without it's "spiritual" understanding); and Scribes (concerned with the "letter" of "scripture") ALL have one thing in common....they say "we see", so their sin remains as it is written in the Gospels.

[read John 9 : 39-41] And Jesus said, For judgment I am come into this world, that they which see not might see; and that they which see might be made blind. And [some] of the Pharisees which were with him heard these words, and said unto him, Are we blind also? Jesus said unto them, If ye were blind, ye should have no sin: but now ye say, We see; therefore your sin remained.

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But for those who realize that they are "blind" and want to see, E-mail Me [click "Mrreal4two" under my icon, when the new page comes up, click "contact Mrreal4two". I will send you ALL the information you need that is "BASED OF THE BIBLE" since that is what ye trust. For it is said by the LORD Jesus " Search the scriptures; for in them ye "think" ye have eternal life: and they are they which "testify" of me[Jesus and those that Jesus resides within]. And well did Jeremiah write of thee [Jeremiah 18:18] "Then said they (the Bibleans) said: Come, and let us devise devices against Jeremiah; for the "law shall not perish" from the priest, nor counsel from the wise, nor the word from the prophet. Come, and let us "smite him with the tongue", and let us not give heed to any of his words.

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So smite on devils, but for those 'born from above' don't believe me here, check out those web sites by e-mailing me for the links (or if you have another idea let me know, I am new to yahoo answers)....Let me know what the LORD leads you to think after you've read them and studied and meditated....for YOU have access to this "understanding" the spiritually dead is stuck with sexual mechanics (carnality) and locked out of the spiritual meaning of sexuality (even homosexuality).

For the LORD said of HIS children:

[Mat 13:11] He answered and said unto them, Because it is given unto you to know the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it is not given.

He also said:
[Luk 8:10] And he said, Unto you it is given to know the mysteries of the kingdom of God: but to others in parables; “that seeing they might not see, and hearing they might not “understand”……..That is GOD’s purpose for many of you to SEE in the scriptures on the page and NOT “understand”

It was also written of JESUS’ life [Mark 14:51-52] And there followed him a certain young man, having a linen cloth cast about [his] naked [body]; and the young men laid hold on him: And he left the linen cloth, and fled from them naked.

Do you "anti-bisexual" christianizers know who that “mystery” MAN was? Do you read these verses CAREFULLY and WORD for WORD? It’s not as “popular” as the shorter verse of ("miss"understood) Lev 18:22 and I Cor. 6:9 and yet it is there IN YOUR KING JAMES BIBLE.

It is ALSO written of the LORD Jesus that HE was FULLY human with ALL temptations that we have. So how can a man be “tempted” of something that is NOT in his body in the first place?

[read Hebrew 4:15] For we have not an high priest “which cannot be touched” with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in “all points” tempted like as [we are, yet] without sin.

So How cane the LORD Jesus be in ALL points tempted AS WE ARE and TOUCHED with the “feeling of our infirmities” (both heterosexual AND homosexual)

….I know you know HE knows what it’s like to be tempted with “heterosexual” desires but NOT homosexual….but that is NOT what the Bible says…it says ALL POINTS as WE ARE.

So either homosexuality is NOT a point of temptation OR ...........“can you put 2 and 2 together?

Ponder THAT.

You can go see the “possibility” that JESUS was “heterosexually” married to Mary Magdalene , because she “followed” HIM, “wiped HIS feet with her hair”, ...

BUT you cannot consider that for a naked man in the garden with JESUS at night, “following” HIM wherever HE went (other Mark chapters give more info but is not in the canon) with nothing but a linen cloth caste “about” (not on) HIS “naked body” and OTHER “young men” laid hold of him to take him (why “him”, weren’t other disciples there too?) you can’t consider what THAT meant AND why GOD told us about it. Nor that Jesus washed HIS disciples’ feet AND commanded they do it for each other as Mary did for HIM. But “The DeVinci code theatres are full of heterosexual christianizers and recoil at considering the young man, and John “the” Beloved of Jesus, and Jonathan & David…

..Ye Hypocrites! If He's hetro (like YOU) it grosses "millions" at the theatre but if HE's Bi-natured in flesh like ME.....OHHHHHHH...Now that's Blasphemy

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To jeepwife4ever

Nope...Not a Mormon

For Mr. Wizard

Thanks, for your encouragement. GOD Bless :-)

for "wants to work at home"

thank you for the kind words and support GOD Bless You :-)

For "kaplah"

The ideal for me is like a "diamond" with NO connections thru the middle and vertices alternating MFMF....MF edges are "covenantly-married" MM and FF edges are "espoused-oneness". GOD(JESUS) you might say is at the heart of the diamond. Only then cound such an arrangement/family work.

For maxine:

I think you are a "classic" example of a woman who "married" prior to being in touch with her "deepest" feelings about her sexuality. This does not "necessarily" mean you are a homosexual person. Many women shut down sexually against men when some male sexual trauma is in thier past. Be sure (thru counseling) that this is NOT you.

For there are many who "turn away from" heterosexuality in favor of "homosexuality" for various reasons (in romans 1, it was to ceremonially serve fertility idols). In our day it can also be emotional or even medical reasons (common with women) and "lust" (common with males).

Naturally born "orientationed" homosexual and bisexual peoples are "running too" themselves and fulfillment after the "inner" man, NOT running away. Make sure you are the former not the later. GOD be with you.

For Danielle:

I have a question for you. Why is it that both selfcalled christians, and those like you who aren't even and GOD (so you say)ALL of ONE mind when it come to homosexuality? Somethings "wrong" with THAT picture :-) You see, I AM "straight"... straight BI !!!!

Answer 1

your an idiot

Answer 2

OK I read you question and I have one for you? If your a guy and you put a another bi-guy in the mix and a bi- women, is the women suppose to not have any women for the rest of her life. You might want to bring two women into the relationship. About the rest of the people commits, who are they to say whats a sin and whats not or which ones will be over looked by God. Because I always thought every sin is the same as another. Further more the Bible is unclear at best and just because some one interprets it one way does not mean that's the way it is. However, It will be really tough to live this life because people are so judgmental and they would always look down on you if you choose to be open about your life style, and if you aren't going to be open about it, then you have to live in secrecy for the rest of your life. I think that you can find people with similar values as you to live your life but it wont be without some type of sacrifice, you have to decide if it is worth it or not. Good luck

Answer 3

Wow! I have been married for 10 years, I thought i had a libido problem (told my doctors), I don't have any sexual attraction to my husband, but love him as a good special friend and father. I went on a trip with my friend and opps had an encounter with her which answered all my questions. It seemed like the most "normal natural" experience I have ever had. So now, this is the first time I have ever had a same sex experience and I am 36 years old. I am extremely into God and Jesus, which is why I bloceked it out for so many years. Now I have a husband and a daughter and absolutely am afraid of talking. I think you have a wonderful idea, and it would only work for people in the same situation as yourself (like me). I would love to raise my daughter with my husband as friends on the condition I NEVER have to have sex with him and could have a significant other girl. My problem is that he is attracted to me and always wants to fool around, in which case I can't stand sex with him and feel violated evry time, go figure. Good luck, I don't know, I need help myself. I know God understands my heart, after all he made me this way.

Answer 4

i don't think the whole thing with multiple partners is good because you have got to think about what if you get what you want and then, the other two leave you out of the loop. i am bi-sexual and just came out recently. i had to actually move to another state where barely anybody knows me. i have also gone through the religion thing. i don't want to make excuses for myself but, sexuality, what ever one a person might be, has been for about 20 years believed to be based on genetics. even though we all came from a man and woman mating, it is said that we may inherit our preference from somebody who wasn't hetero. whether they were out or not. there is a big flip-flop between that and religion. i have been through a lot and will support u with the sexuality thing but still believe that a relationship should be based on 2 people, not anymore. no disrespect intended.

Answer 5

Probably not in the Christian community, but such an arrangement is not unusual in the Pagan community. They're not common, mind you, but we wouldn't bat an eyelash.
I hope that you mean too that both partners would also love one another. The idea that one person would be the boss and the other two cleave only to him and not to each other as well is very much frowned upon, but again, you're looking for Christians so Pagan ideals probably don't concern you one bit.

Answer 6

If you think and do whatever u want to, and move along the life with no compromises or sacrifices and never ever listen to God and at the end of the day telling "I love God and Im a true Christian" and posting these kinda wierd questions in an open Forumn..promoting the word Cristianity by linking with these kinda relationship thats something to be reathink abt.....
If u r a true christian (u claim so) next time when u pray give sometime to listen to God...as Prayer is something like a two way communication you say something to God and in the same time you listen from him...many people goes wrong in this place they talk to God but never listens...then dont have the patience to listen...A father will love a son who listens to Him and he will even give his life for his needs ......And Im sure If u wouldve listend from him you would ave never ever ever raised a question like this ........Prayer is the answer to all If God has created Adam and Eve and he wanted them to be together and sustain a family he wants us to follow like that also ...You can pray and the God who gave Abraham his first Son at that age can also help you, May god Bless you..

Answer 7

No offence, but in God's world you are either heterosexual or homosexual(gay/lesbain). There is no such things as BOTH. And if you read the bible, Romans chapter 1, you will see that lesbianism and homosexuality is wrong. God does not approve of it. Which means that God does not approve of the fact that you 'like' men. So your little marriage thing is not possible under God's laws. You can do it and break the laws of God, that part is up to you. There are consequences!

Answer 8

I am bisexually oriented but choose to be a monogamus heterosexual becasue I read the bible and I am a Chrisitan and I want to obey the lord because I want to not because I have to. He commands us not to lay with the same sex like the opposite sex. I love the Lord with all my heart soul and mind and so I do this. I have a husband. Choose this day whom you will serve.

Answer 9

i am compassionate ;yet a truthful person.i can hear a lot of confusion and pain as you write.
i believe you have to be one way or another.in that be faithful to your parnter period.what mesage does that bring?i be bi-sexual-but i want another parnter.
god loves us all/but make s it clear that this wrong in the bible.check this out :in beginning god created male and female in his image.
yes there,s is confusion from the beginining of time with sexuality.know this god did not make you this way.sin came into the world and perverted sex into a ungly thing.marriage is for female and male.however i din,t turn your struggle away for i know it real.i will pray for you.
much blessings and peace

Answer 10

When all is said and done...Only you have to live your life. God is supposed to love all of his children no matter their sins. Though the Bible traditionally promotes same sex arrangements you can't live your live in constant doubt and turmoil. There are people out there like yourself, and you might find one. Try looking for focus groups or meetings for people with similar traits.

Ignore all of these people who judge forcefully, while claiming to embrace the lord. WWJD ?? WWJD?? For what it means, I love U, and Jesus would love and embrace you for whatever you are.
ITS THE TRUTH...

Answer 11

Interesting.....and I really don't see why not. It's just that even in the most open-mindedly social enviroment, you may have a tough search looking for your special circle.

Hope exists, however in that bisexuals are fairly open minded individuals.

And this comes from someone NOT bisexual, by the way......good luck in your search: hope you do find that special circle.